I am addressing this issue because few have come up to me and asked how does it feel to be so beautiful? And some, with a hint of negativity; you don't think you are THAT pretty are you? Both of which, I absolutely agree on. Yes I am beautiful, and yes I am not THAT pretty. And even, to satisfy the other subset of fanbase, yes I am ugly.
How?
The concept here is that, everybody has different taste in woman or man. Sometimes we see this one woman as a goddess with the perfect facial features and bone structure, then wonder how come no man feels the same? Sometimes we might even argue with our partner simply because he finds Taylor Swift (for eg.) attractive and we go, that pale dummy?! This is of course, due to the many aspects of growing up that differ from one person to the other.
Personally, I am a weirdo myself, when rating a man's attractiveness level. Scrap the eyes, nose, smile, and height. I am always attracted to:
1) A lean neck
1) A lean neck
2) Symmetrical hairline meets bushy straight hair
3) Small waist and small butt
4) Straight shoulders .
When rating a woman, I am attracted to 1) Long teeth 2) Elegant thin fingers. You find it amusing? Tell me what are the features that you consider in rating a man or a woman? You might amuse me too in return.
Crazy about hairline.
That is why, we should always be empathic when our dear friend has fallen in love with someone rather ugly (to our eyes, according to our 'taste'), because later in life, s/he might be thinking the same about our choice of partner. Nobody have the exact same taste in something (except maybe some identical twins, but still not all), so chill already. Beauty is too subjective. Nobody gets to be beautiful in all eyes, as well as nobody gets to be ugly in all eyes.
Bear in mind that; if you think you are ugly, there are people out there who thinks otherwise. From now on when you wake up and look at the mirror, praise The Almighty Allah for creating and giving you, your perfect features. Again, my theory is that, if you really think that you are ugly;
You are not ugly,
you are just not your own taste.
you are just not your own taste.
Heck, even I am not my own taste.
Bravo!
ReplyDeletegreat ;D
ReplyDeletei dont feel like that lah sis :)
ReplyDeleteHAHA. btw, nice entry. =D
yup toi 2..hehee p gadis ase gadis cantik..hehehe hanis pown cantik...comel ag..
ReplyDeleteI am not my own taste too
ReplyDeleteu are beautiful lady.. :)
ReplyDeleted quote is damn PERFECT.
ReplyDeletenice one hanis :)
ReplyDeletegood post :)
ReplyDeletebtul jgak apa yg awk kata..
ReplyDeletesebelum ni memang rasa rendah diri bout my looks. tp bla fkr balik, sy ptut bsyukur kat ALLAH sebab cipta saya sempurna tanpa cacat cela
yaa that's right..b'syukurlah & sayangilah diri anda apa adanya..:D
ReplyDeletegood post hamis :)
ReplyDeletekeknis.
ReplyDeletesangat2 betul. kita nak apa yg kita suka ada pada diri kita.
knnnnnnnnnnnnn?
everyone have their own choice right?
ReplyDeletei rate women on:
ReplyDelete1) smile, despite her mouth's shape
2) hair
3) dress up
ehee sound judgmental. :/
back to self confidence.
ReplyDeleteindeed!!
ReplyDeletenice one! :)
ReplyDeleteYou are not ugly,
ReplyDeleteyou are just not your own taste.
im with you all the way!! someone out there might actually love the features that we hate on ourselves kan? :D
Hanis. you did a great job !
ReplyDeleteDamn good!
ReplyDeleteindeed!
ReplyDeletei find boys attractive when they hv
- bushy long thick eyebrows
- tall
- lil bit chest hair.
haha. i know other girls say "ewww" when i mention chest hair. its sexy la oi. haha
Great post! And I am totally agree with it.. Others might think the way different like what we think.. :)
ReplyDeleteBeauty are subjective..
i'm so ugly!..i hate myself since i was young..i wear glasses(it makes me look worse..i used to wear contact lense but since it is so 'leceh' than i stopped)..i hate the whole of my body part..my eyes,my nose, my lips,my skin.. i'm so thin (that makes me flat like a boy)..i also look older than my real age..but alhamdulillah..there was a man fall in love with me (my dearie husband)..but still i've to give some effort to make him attracted to me..:(
ReplyDeleteTotally true!!
ReplyDeletedulu sy rasa sgt burok. tapi bila da besar sy yakin sy xde la seburok mana. manusia boleh berubah kan ;))
ReplyDeletedulu sy rasa sgt burok. tapi bila da besar sy yakin sy xde la seburok mana. manusia boleh berubah kan ;))
ReplyDeleteto NH..man, i love men with hairy chest too...but not too much. hahahaha...yep, i agree with u..damn sexay!!!!
ReplyDeletenice entry! yup stiap org mpunyai tarikan tsendiri. yeah, cntik 2 kn subjektif. klu muka cntik akhlak huduh pn xguna jgk kn?
ReplyDeleteyg pntg kte sume cntik di mata org2 ttntu... hiks!
Agreed with NH.Men wif hairy chest is sexayy!!! hehehe..but not too much hair pls. :)
ReplyDeleteboys im attracted to :
ReplyDelete- long face
- tall
- wide smile
- deep voice
hish, tak malu betul sy., :")
wohhh it didn't cross my mind why i always think that i'm ugly. so the reason is my appearance is not my taste. ok accepted!
ReplyDeletethanks hanis for the theory ;D
wohhh it didn't cross my mind why i always think that i'm ugly. so the reason is my appearance is not my taste. ok accepted!
ReplyDeletethanks hanis for the theory ;D
this is embarassing, but i'm gonna say it anyways.
ReplyDeletei like *painfully skinny guys* despite the fact that i am a chubby gurl.
hahahahahaha...and the part that says "you're not your own taste", hell yeah you're right. cuz sometimes when ppl complimented my fb photos,i'd go "you're not serious are you"? of course i feel flattered, i'm just..well...not letting myself getting used to comment.
awesome entry, hanis!
this is embarassing, but i'm gonna say it anyways.
ReplyDeletei like *painfully skinny guys* despite the fact that i am a chubby gurl.
hahahahahaha...and the part that says "you're not your own taste", hell yeah you're right. cuz sometimes when ppl complimented my fb photos,i'd go "you're not serious are you"? of course i feel flattered, i'm just..well...not letting myself getting used to comment.
awesome entry, hanis!
semua orang adalah cantik.
ReplyDeleteterpulang pada pembawakan diri dan personalitu
:)
just so riteeee.
ReplyDeletea'aa..d quote is damn perfect la hanis!damn pathetic kan d feeling,huhuh :p
ReplyDeleteYou are not ugly,
ReplyDeleteyou are just not your own taste.
wah! betapa betul dan coolnya kata kata diatas ini..
"You are not ugly,
ReplyDeleteyou are just not your own taste".
masing2 ada keunikan tersendiri..
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ReplyDeletegood post...
ReplyDeleteuiks..ramai je yang ckp hanis zalikah cantik..paling rmai yang cakap hanis zalikha cantik giler!!!
ReplyDeleteSometimes we might even argue with our partner simply because he finds Taylor Swift (for eg.) attractive and we go, that pale dummy?!
ReplyDeleteFinally.
nice entry.. nak share.. betul..setuju dengan kata2 Hanis.. Hanis ni kira taste saya la..sebab saya rasa Hanis cantik je
ReplyDeletealaaa bersyukur je dgn ape yg telah dikurniakan.. :)
ReplyDeleteJemput-jemput: Saat Aku Kau Pilih
Cara Dapat Side Income Dengan HeartBeat!
this is so true,babe! :)
ReplyDeletegood phrase. love it.
ReplyDeleteWell, unlike the man, there is a researcher claims that women in general, they view the concept of beauty using both brains. wuh!
ReplyDeletei think you're as beautiful as a goddess Hanis Zalikha.
ReplyDeletewomen
1) i like curvy butts
2) i like long fingers
3) i like long legs
4) cute smile
lol!
everyone is beautiful in their own way...
ReplyDeletesokong kak hanis (:
ReplyDeletenice sis !
ReplyDelete;D
best entry ever!
ReplyDeletecool , tak semua perempuan minat lelaki mcm nie !
ReplyDeleteHanis,
ReplyDeleteTQ for such awesome entry. u make my day darling!
Tsk tsk, Taylor Swift ade dalam entri ni. :D
ReplyDeletetwo thumbs up!..*loves*
ReplyDeletebeuty is deep in your heart..layak ke kita nak kata kan itu cantik ini tak cantik sedangkan semua dicipta Allah..tapi klu sentuh soal taste yes..masing2 ada taste tersendiri..
ReplyDeletestrongly agree with u hanis =)
ReplyDeletewell said! :)
ReplyDeleteAgree with that. By the way, everyone got their own way to attract people. Not only by their great looking face and body :)
ReplyDeletedont hate me cause im beautiful. hahaha
ReplyDeletefor me:
ReplyDeletelelaki- tanned, gigi lawa
wanita- suka senyum, kuku kemas
yap betui tu, taste beda2, maka tepuk dada tanya selera ;-)
n plus, bak kata tyra banks "Beauty is only interesting when it's debatable"
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ReplyDeleteSalam, singgah petang sabtu :)
ReplyDeleteNew Entry "Mahu bina masjid lagi..."
"You are not ugly,
ReplyDeleteyou are just not your own taste."
I chanced upon your blog today.
I've been struggling with issues for as long as I can remember; but try as I might, I've never gotten out of the pit.
But your quote blew my mind. A sudden, much-needed paradigm shift.
You may not believe the gravity of your words but today, you changed my life.
Thank you.
yeahh. totally
ReplyDeletethe thing is..be grateful of how u look... because beauty isnt everything... its basically on how u dress n present urself so that u will look beautiful~
ReplyDeleteand by the way hanis, *forgot to say earlier*... u r attractive... beautiful i must say...^_^
ReplyDeleteahaha.btol2!
ReplyDeletehaha betol . kecantikan ni terlalu subjektif . lain orang lain cerita dia :D
ReplyDeletewell said! Its soo true. =)
ReplyDeletebiarlah kita jadi diri kita sendiri kan..:)
ReplyDeletegood entry hanis :)
ReplyDeletei myself am very much attracted to tall kemas guys that are kinda nerdy. lol.
'you are just not your own taste'
ReplyDeletethat itself is against Allah's nature, dont u think? :)
after all, this entry is almost perfectly written!
betul tu .. kecantikan tu terlalu subjectif... i x peduli org lain fikir.. i tau i cantik... haha :)
ReplyDeleteThank you! Spread the love!
ReplyDeleteyup..setuju...
ReplyDeletemmg kekadang kita akan rs sgt rendah diri bila melihat org yg lebih cantik dari kita..tp sbnrnya kecantikan tu dtg dari dlm diri kita..bila dalaman diri baik..akan trserlah pd luaran...
apa2 pun kita kena terima seadanya diri kita...:)
beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder :)
ReplyDeletetrue. actually everyone is beautiful hanis !
ReplyDeleteentry yg best giler...:)
ReplyDeleteahaha
ReplyDeletei look at shoulders, arms n hands on a man. oooh hands tell a lot of things~
maybe jawline.
*kipas2 diri*
;)
i find mr depp and simon baker very good looking. some disagree but i like what i like haha
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ReplyDeleteah not exactly physical attributes, but i find lefties hot ;)
ReplyDelete(husband turned out to be a lefty too ;))
salam..
ReplyDeletebut....
for me..all women
are beauty..
Best post everrrrrrrr <3
ReplyDeletesyabas..syabas!
ReplyDeleteI AM NOT MY OWN TASTER ALWAYS, I THINK I'M UGLY. HAHAHAHAHAHAAH, thanks HANIS! <3
ReplyDeletetrue very true :D
ReplyDeletetrue very true :D
ReplyDeleteoLa..'kejelitaan adalah hak milik setiap insan'..huehue
ReplyDeletekite x chantek p0n..tapi manis tetap ada [ada la sikit]..n_n
cantik?!
chantek?!
santek?!
cuantek?!
hurm.....
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ReplyDeletebagi saya, perempuan adalah ciptaan yang paling indah oleh tuhan.... :D
ReplyDeletesape nak tau kisah yang paling JAHANAM klik sini
i am glad i am my own taste :)
ReplyDeleteQuoted from The ANTM :
ReplyDelete"You are beautiful when you are beautiful from the inside."
My 2cents : Those who judge too much on others are pathetic. Not knowing that they're too being judge from the Above until their last breath. I wonder if they know that.
ps: Following ur blog and adding up to my bloglist :) I'm feeling beautiful with this/your entry :)
Cheers!
Cntik yg thn lama ble die cntik dr dlm..:-)
ReplyDeleteme neither =.="
ReplyDeletedamn good post..
ReplyDeletewell said!!!! horreyyyy for hanis zalikha! i pinjam ur quote ek!
ReplyDelete:)
awesome! :)
ReplyDeletebrilliant point hanis!
ReplyDeleteu made my day :)
hai HZ :)..everybody have their own taste..different people, different taste..but,if someone love the person, normally they will deny 'the ugly'..nice entry.
ReplyDeleteabsolutely right Hanis!! tq
ReplyDeletekita kene perasan chantek, barulah jadik cantik
ReplyDeleteyeaaaaaaaahhhh
ReplyDeleteGREAT ! XD
ReplyDeleteagreed 100% , good job , lovee it !(:
ckp psl cantik saya sensitif skit ..
ReplyDeleteramai dah ckp kt sya mcm2 ::( ramai ygejek sya gemuk sis :( sedeyh :/ rasa mcm mana entah~ sakit sgt hati bila org persendakan izikal kita.. saya sedar say agemuk tp saya pon ada hati dan perasaan :(
and so we have our own taste :p
ReplyDeleteOhh.. macam tukah...
ReplyDeletetapi camana bg org yg rasa dia lawa / hensem??
adakah mereka taste diri mereka?
ce citer ce citer...
You are not ugly
ReplyDeleteyou are just not your own taste!!
Definitely true :)
BTW, I always go by this ~ beauty is in the eye of the beholder hence beauty is a very subjective things.
The truth is..u got beautiful brain la Hanis.. Sungguh jeles with this part.. External beauty i x jeles sgt sbb i think i just suit my own taste..ahakss.. You totally come with brain...jeles2...ahhahah
ReplyDeletewhen you see my photos you'll know why i think im ugly. hee
ReplyDeletewhen u see my photos , you'll know why i think im ugly. seriously.
ReplyDeleteagreed!
ReplyDeletetotally agreed wif u..
ReplyDeletelike dis entry da most
to be frank wif u
sumtimes i envy to u..
u got da perfect bone structure, skin, height its so flawless.
nice one! love this entry,,good job hanis zalika ;) 100% agree with you!
ReplyDeletevery well said. Women across the world are beautiful in their own ways...
ReplyDeleteI love this post..terus nak nyanyi lagu beautiful....
ReplyDeleteconfident ,, hihi the way we proud of ourself is the beauty hoyeh ~
ReplyDeleteif all girls think they're ugly, I wonder why they keep 'camwhoring' and posted it on facebook.girls are funny indeed
ReplyDeleteagree...everyone is created perfect dear...
ReplyDeletekcantikan tu pd mata yg mmndang,
ReplyDeletehehhehe..
Yea!! I'm not ugly, and i'm quiet pretty =P (must be confident) ^^
ReplyDeleteomegod, i love this!
ReplyDeleteeveryone please admit that u also had those feeling even a lil bit. even tiny as dust. we often dissatisfied with ourselves when we saw someone who looks better to our eyes.
ReplyDeletebtw my ideal life parnert type is someone who had jaw bone like Brad Pit hehhehe
Entry ni bestttt! ♡
ReplyDeleteEntry ni bestttt! ♡
ReplyDeletemotivate me a lot! ;) thanx!
ReplyDeleteThe first forehead pic looked like Rob Patz..is it him?
ReplyDeleteEverybody is beautiful in their own way and style..
Be thankful for it!
sbb kite cam tak cukup bersyukur.. kan? -_-
ReplyDeleteawesome post...heee...:)
ReplyDeletesuke laki kurus... rambut pacak...tak berapa hensem..heee..:)
my mom always said that beauty lies on the eyes of beholder.
ReplyDeleteYou are not ugly,
ReplyDeleteyou are just not your own taste.
- thumbs up for you!!! :D -
ugly means nice to see..agre??
ReplyDeleteim so fond of eyes. nearly fall in love to contact lens users. No really into people with long face. banana shape
ReplyDeletependedahan kisah rumah berhantu di shah alam
nyanyi lagu Bruno Mars - Just The Way You Are to motivate ur self..
ReplyDelete"..Cause you're amazing.. Just the way you are.." ;)
"...Cause you're amazing.. Just the way you are..." Bruno Mars =)
ReplyDeleteHUHUHU...I ALWAYS FEEL UGLY...:(
ReplyDeletecantek is subjective.. kalu semua org taste same, susah la kan?
ReplyDeleteamong all your entries, i heart this one! i used to think i was ugly but like you said, when to think there are people out there who think i am pretty while some might not, so WTH.. i take the pretty one instead of the ugly one.. ehehehe ;P
ReplyDelete*clap*clap*clap*
ReplyDelete*standing ovation*
kak hanis, this is why a lot of people love you very much!!!!!
ReplyDeleteakak sgt bijak bila lontarkan pendapat..
yup, saya rasa hodoh n tak berkeyakinan bila nak berdepan dgn org..
LOSER
"GROOL"...
ReplyDelete(Great+Cool)
"GROOL"
ReplyDelete(Great+Cool)
"GROOL"
ReplyDelete(Great+Cool)
beautiful is subjective matter.. btw, i have some tips for beautiful skin. visit my blog ya!! http://ezbungamatahari.blogspot.com/2011/02/cantik-sihat-dan-awek-muda.html
ReplyDeletebeautiful is subjective matter.. btw, i have some tips for beautiful skin. visit my blog ya!! http://ezbungamatahari.blogspot.com/2011/02/cantik-sihat-dan-awek-muda.html
ReplyDeletenice one! let's love ourself okey! hehe..=D
ReplyDeleteMakan malam Dengan Hami Asraff
yeahhh...bersyukur dengan apa yg ada walaupun tahu kekurangan..
ReplyDeleteterbaiklah post ni... sukaaaaaaaa
ReplyDeletei like these in a guy :
ReplyDeletePhysical
1) tanned
2) tough built
3) straight hair
4) mata bulat @ xsepet sgt
5) taller than me (170 cm and above)
muahahaha! :p
Alaaa...Omote pun nak jadi cantik gak...Omote nak jadi cantik! Omote nak jadi cantik!
ReplyDeletei like!
ReplyDeleteCouldn't agree more. Beauty is the eyes of the beholder :)
ReplyDeletetak perlu kata apa apa..senyum :)
ReplyDeletebaby i like it!! i i i like it!! :D
ReplyDeletedefinitely right..
ReplyDeletei recently got married and my husband seems to be like my childhood photo yg paling i tak suka.
apparently, i am his taste although i am not my biggest fan..
..
very true~ uve waken me up!!tq~
ReplyDeleteBetul tu..
ReplyDeleteboring... mana si Demoketot lama tak nampak?
ReplyDeleteHanis, i'm totally agree!
ReplyDelete**terima kasih kerana membuka mata sesetangah manusia yang terlalu memandang rendah pada diri sendiri.. =)
kamu mmg cntek. pena nmpk kt sgmt dulu cume tme tu xsure sape . sampailah tya junior dip dia ckp " tu hanis zalikha la kak!" :)
ReplyDeleteYou are not ugly, you are just not your own taste ( Hanis, 2011) :p
ReplyDeletewow what a good post! totally agree with you!
ReplyDeleteI rate guys:
1) kekiutan mukanya di pandangan mata aku
2) lips
3) hairstyle
4) neck (lagi suka kalau ada moles kat neck..erghhh so sexy)
5) chest
6) body yang tak kurus and tak gemok or ketul2 sangat..
7) dress up
8) height
i've dated my dream guy before (totally 100% perfect like what i dreamt for a guy my whole life) but, he was not my soulmate. and now i'm married to a guy yang maybe 70% je from my dream guy but he is my soulmate..=)
hope hamis will find your soulmate too!
The one that makes us look ugly is not entirely ourselves. We think we're ugly becoz we're not our personal taste. But that's only a quarter of it. We always think that we're ugly becoz we're not most people's personal taste. And it's irritating for someone who is already in this comfortable zone to point out tiny-miny things he/she doesn't like about him/herself.
ReplyDeletewhen u feel less, it makes u to become more..
ReplyDeleteso, to feeling less is good.. :)
hmm...G.R.E.A.T
ReplyDeletebetul2..
ReplyDeleteagree!!!!
ReplyDeletetotally agree!!!
ReplyDeletenice one! :)
ReplyDeleteBRAVOO BRAVOOO !!!
ReplyDeletehttp://fiqras.blogspot.com/
wahhhhhhhhhhh betul2 :D
ReplyDeletebeauty in the eyes of beholder
ReplyDeletehuhuhu
kalau chinese saloon potong rmbt buruk lak cmne ? aaa ! *geram rmbt xelok
ReplyDeletethat last statement....IS JUST FUNNY AND RINGS A BELL OF TRUTH...
ReplyDeleteNEVER THOUGHT OF IT THAT WAY...now got me dying because of stitches of laughterssssssssssss
This is a good artikel utk mereka yang rasa...AKU TAK CANTIK!!
ReplyDeletecute..is perfectly means ugly but nice to see..
ReplyDeletemust get some "hairline"
ReplyDeletengeeeeeeee
=)
i basically rate on boys based on :
ReplyDelete1) teeth
2) pointed nose
3) hairline too ;)
Kadang2 kitew suka perempuan gedik. Tapi orang lain katew kenapa suka perempuan gedik? LOL!
ReplyDeleteI THINK IM BEAUTIFUL ENUF.IS IT RIGHT ? KEHKEH XD
ReplyDeleteI ALWAYS THINK THAT IM BEAUTIFUL ENOUGH.MUAHAAHA
ReplyDeleteHaha..syukur ler dgn diri sendri. Belajar hargai diri sendiri. Kita memang lain dari yang lain. Barulah berwarna warni hidup ini.
ReplyDeleteHANIS ZALIKHA! lol this entry became my material for final exam just now.. dafuq2.. hahah
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