Thursday, September 22, 2011

6 Things To Consider Before Publishing Your Love Life Online

In response to the Google keyword search 'Hanis Zalikha boyfriend' that has knocked on my door countless times, I bring to you... 6 Things To Consider Before Publishing Your Love Life Online.

Take this: You have a boyfriend/girlfriend. You love him/her with all your heart, you jump I jump my heart will go on. Next thing you know, you're itching to tell the (online) world how deep/high your love is because obviously sea mountain all sure cannot challenge. So... Should you? Should I?

STOP RIGHT THERE MISSY!


Your Audience
For this blog, I tahu adik-adik sekolah rendah (hai semua! hai kawan Alisya!) ada yang tegar baca belog ini nak tahu game terkini kat Facebook yang diorang boleh cuba menang LOL. Yang si pembaca cilik sudahlah senang terpengaruh, nanti umur baru setahun sebaya dengan jagung, dah nak ada pakwe/makwe ikut Keknis. Tak molek-molek.

I juga tahu ada lecturer-lecturer (salam 1Malaysia, salam 1UiTM di hatiku *berhemah*) yang ikuti penulisan I, jadi sungguh gelilah jikalau I mahu berjiwang di sini. Tak berwibawa betul nak cerita hari tuh kitew giew Uptown mamam doyan (durian dalam bahasa takde gigi) dengan diew hewhewhew nafas diew bau doyan lew pastuew, kitew pon samew jew, maluewww hikhikhik.

So think, who is your audience/reader/follower/FB friend? Is that really what you want to expose to them? My future boss might be reading this too... (HELLO FUTURE BOSS!)


Privacy Issue
For me, there are things that I'd like to keep private because as a lifestyle blogger (who exposes almost everything; work, study, family), I do need my space. And my partner does need his space as well.

My bestfriends (read: bestfriends, not just one) always come to me "Weh aku rimas orang yang aku jumpa tanya-tanya pasal kau sebab tahu kita bestfriend -_-". Jadi kini saya lebih memahami akan situasi. Takpelah, price yang I have to pay for being a blogger tak patut diburdenkan kepada orang tercinta dalam hidupku (Hamis ko takyahlah nak feeling public figure kat sini).

Saya juga aware situasi di mana haters, kalau tak dapat goyangkan dia punya target, dia akan shift kepada the partner. Jadi kalau orang benci/menyampah/meluat/geram/tak puas hati dengan saya, nanti partner saya ke yang kena tanggung bashing? Oh tak boleh lagu tu, tak boleh...

So I choose to keep my love life private.


Public Rating
Most of us have the tendency to judge/rate/compare someone's partner. I am not willing to let my other half go through that. Physical/economical/mental semua nak komen (mulut orang, takleh nak tahan jadi lebih baik avoid awal-awal). I pun taknak kena "Eh Hanis tak deserve him at all, just look at her".

Worse, I've seen some cases di mana sang public figure tukar-tukar boyfriend dan orang compare current boyfriend/husband with previous boyfriend. Tak ke stress?

Kalau you tegar, or ada your own agendas (as relationship guru ke apa), it is up to you though.


Trash Can
No one wants to go separate ways in bitterness, but can you foresee the future? Kalau tertempek muka sang kekasih dalam entri terdahulu, bila tak berhasil antara anda berdua, ha kan dah kena buang one good entry. Kalau banyak penulisan anda ada include dia? Ha kan dah kena buang few good entries.

Rugi... rugi...

Lagi drastik bila terpaksa tukar blog address/banner/host terus.


Over feeling
Toleransi orang terhadap material jiwang berlainan. Ada yang suka nak baca, ada yang rasa nak pelangkung. Anda ada kan kawan di Facebook yang suka canang-canang pasangan dia, aktiviti mereka bersama, ekpresi cinta di hati, setiap 5minit? Ha anda suka? Kalau anda suka baguslah, anda memang penyayang.

Jadi saya nak elak benda tuh lebih baik jangan mulakan. Mana kita tahu kan, kot-kot dah angau takleh kawal. Nanti tulis pun macam bagus, pakwe I paling best/sweet/romantik/hot/berasap. Jenuh korang nak mengadap.

Takpelah, biar kami angau berdua sahaja. Last time I checked, love is between two people.


Special Place
Begini. I buat belog dari I umur 18tahun. Imagine kalau dari waktu I start belog, setiap kali tukar pasangan, I tulis kat belog ini. Wah! Meriah uols!

Takleh jadi... takleh jadi... Macam dah takde apa yang istimewa. Jadi apakata siapa yang menang (best man wins gitueww) je, boleh difeaturekan. Nama dia : Hasben.


Posted by Hanis Zalikha at 8:34 PM

187 comments:

  1. N'CraftSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:12 PM

    thats so true. Dulu my 1st bf pun, pernah sampai tukar status relationship kat Fb. then bila clash, of cz tukar status tu right. Rupenya malu ya rabbi bila orang tau kita dah clash. since that, memang xpernah tukar status and keep it private. If future bf wants to, so sorry to say laa sbb memang takkan expose. Hubby je. ngeh3

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  2. farah jalikhaSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:16 PM

    like!

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  3. AnonymousSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:19 PM

    hehehe..suke entry ni. u mmg beauty with brain;)

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  4. MyraSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:19 PM

    like! :D

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  5. unknownSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:20 PM

    good one hanis! i mg agree ssgt sbb mluat baca blog org cerita pasal bf. baru bf/tunang je pon. pastu break maki2 pungpang2.tah pape

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  6. saadah azminSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:22 PM

    betul tu..privacy remains privacy

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  7. ^cahaya_harapan91^September 22, 2011 at 10:22 PM

    iloikeeee,,btul3..xsume bnda kite leh share kan..

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  8. azzaSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:24 PM

    i agree with u hanis... :)
    lps dh kawen bru lah i brani nk
    jiwang skit2 dlm blog i..
    skit jelah kan..hehehe..

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  9. ♥NuR SyAFiQah♥September 22, 2011 at 10:24 PM

    haha...seriously aku memang suke style ko tulis..slamber jer walopon certain ayat ken abaca 2 3 kali nk paham sebb hiperbola terlalu byk..heheee

    keep it work :)

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  10. [sutera kasih]September 22, 2011 at 10:25 PM

    bukan semua benda nak kongsi di blog kan..kena hati2 jgk :)

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  11. Mrs. MazlanSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:25 PM

    LOL..
    kite reramai tggu siapa yg namenya akan disbut di sini..
    aisheewah!

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  12. reenaSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:26 PM

    Hanis, u tertinggal 1 perkataan: "...the price yang I have to pay for being a FAMOUS blogger". Blogger tak femes cam kitaorang ni, kalau citer pasal kucing ke, bf ke, karipap ke, tak dak sapa kisah. Hihi :p

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  13. Mek OnieSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:27 PM

    perfect...... :)

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  14. are-areSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:31 PM

    hanis i giler respect you ;DD sgt2 adorable laa u ni. btw kalau wedding jgn lupe plak jemput readers u ok. :)

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  15. [k.u.y.a]September 22, 2011 at 10:32 PM

    well done hanis!

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  16. azliah mohamedSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:32 PM

    agreed..wonder why some people tayang gf/bf as if org lain takde partner.. hurmmm

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  17. HaneulSonataSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:32 PM

    the best woman is for the best man :) yuhuuuuuu.good luck good luckk. apa kata kita sama2 dapat cinta DIA dulu nak? hehe

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  18. AnonymousSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:33 PM

    totally agreed ^_^

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  19. alfsfr.aliSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:34 PM

    terbaik la keknis!

    mmg ramai girls suka tayang pakwe dlm blog. sgt ramai!

    dan saya kalau nampak blogger mcm ni mmg sure rasa nak cepuk sebijik tp apa boleh buat, hanya nampak kegedikkan beliau menayang pakwe dlm dunia maya, so xleh cepuk sebab nnt cepuk patah skrin laptop saya.

    tp pape pun. totally agree with all those points!

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  20. IndrawanieSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:38 PM

    OH GOD! finally! i've been waiting for someone to write something like this.

    200% agreed!

    sometimes people just have to know their limits. thanks keknis :3

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  21. Rani RashidSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:40 PM

    suka dengan cara Hanis yang bukan sibuk nak tayang boyfriend.

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  22. LiyanaSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:42 PM

    i love this one.u have the right to publish what u want. and keeping ur private life private is what u need to do :)

    if you spoke your mind all the time u'd be speechless forever
    (ini voldermort yg cakap)

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  23. mocha~September 22, 2011 at 10:44 PM

    sweetnya!!

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  24. YatieSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:45 PM

    hi Hanis! i've been a silent reader of your blog for quite some time.. really like your writing style. funny and on the dot! :P and totally agree with you that some things are best kept secret. all the best for your future undertakings!

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  25. UnknownSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:46 PM

    LIKE this ! . . <3

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  26. AnonymousSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:47 PM

    i second ure postttt 110% tau!

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  27. Nadia GhazaLiSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:47 PM

    it's hanis zalikha's boyfriend instead. I'd prefer announcing my boyfriend called 'husband' rather than announcing a so-called husband to the public :) (sorry kalau komen I bajet public figure mcm u jugak) lol

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  28. ZaridaIshakSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:49 PM

    tersangatlah setujunya... memang banyak perkara yang perlu difikirkan sebelum dibuat cerita dalam blog... tak semua sesuai dibaca semua orang dan tak ramai orang suka baca kisah peribadi ala-ala diary story kan?.. lainlah kalau princess diary ker... boleh buat filem dapat duit untung juta-juta... hehe

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  29. lisa minSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:56 PM

    wahh like it sooo much!! =)

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  30. Dhiya FarizaSeptember 22, 2011 at 10:57 PM

    well said. opinion/ your view, well accepted. i like. especially the end of it. HASBEN.

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  31. shidaidrisSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:02 PM

    omg, this entry made me comment ur entry as i someone that really rare to comment. 300% correct

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  32. Hanis ZalikhaSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:08 PM

    Your comment, tweet & Facebook share keeps me going! I thank you. Each one.

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  33. MelinSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:09 PM

    Yeahhhhhhh agreed!

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  34. Teha Nur FatehaSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:12 PM

    super duper like the last one! :)

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  35. Nadhirah AhmadSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:14 PM

    agree. btw, sangatlah icky bila dgr bf gf ckp xde gigi in social media. erghh.. lol

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  36. .September 22, 2011 at 11:14 PM

    like like !

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  37. syazwan tahirSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:24 PM

    kittew suke entri ini la kak nis ! :D hehehehe ;P

    enciksyazwanpunyablok.blogspot.com

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  38. DNadilaFSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:24 PM

    benar benar benar. i'm 16 and i'm the 1 of *your audience* kakak hanis HAHA (mahu mengaku budak skola rendah)

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  39. UnknownSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:25 PM

    sy pon xcite bf2 ni kt public *bajet retis gitew





    nice entry!!~

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  40. TheBentPencilSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:28 PM

    also, say no to multi author blog, by which they are only two authors: makwe and pakwe. can't imagine what happen if they broke up.

    oh, Imma get nuked by saying this....

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  41. Puan EkaSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:34 PM

    tulah pasal..

    tak semua orang suka kita asyik terlalu menulis tentan bf kita..

    kita mana tahu orang tak suka kita tulis,tak suka apa kita letak..tak semua paham apa kita nak cerita pasal bf kita..

    cukuplah kita dan dia tahu...cita biasa2 je lah..hehehe
    like like..

    suka hanis tulis ini...hehehe...

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  42. HHSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:34 PM

    agree! i pun tak suka bising2 sangat hal relationship ni. geli lah.

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  43. Nurul Mazni SawalSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:39 PM

    Yeah.. tepat sekali hanis.. Bfore this my blog pun pernah citer pasal my ex bf.. then biler we've nothing, i ase cam nak delete jer balik ape yang penah i citer pasal dia. thank god, i tak featured banyak pasal dia pun.. fuh3.. tapi bila ternampak link tu, rase nak campak jer laptop dalam lombong.. hehehehe

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  44. Izzaida DzulkifliSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:48 PM

    Ya Allah, kenapa lah Keknis ni. Tak boleh blaaaa this part :

    rituew giew uptown mama doyan nafas diew bau doyan kitew pun samew jew malueww hikhikhikkkk

    Kelakar lah!! XD

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  45. AnneSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:50 PM

    I like this entry. setuju sangat2.

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  46. missinaSeptember 22, 2011 at 11:57 PM

    btul tu,,yg kelakarnya ada gk yg tk kisah letk tiap2 gmbr BF die,,sape yg malu,,tak psl cop playgirl,,

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  47. DeknaSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:00 AM

    yeah..btol2..

    same goes to me..
    bila dlu smgt i cerita sana sini kt blog sal bf i.. em ye la.time tu sonok sgt..

    so bila dah jadi ex..xleh wat apa lah kn..so

    dpt pngajaran.
    jgn lagi bercerita beria ia pasal sesuatu yg blum pasti..
    so pas ni. dh kawen bru nk gitau..heee

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  48. Filla September 23, 2011 at 12:01 AM

    YES... so damn true! selagi blom jadi husband tersayang, elok lah low profile kan je dia.. depends, kalau blogger ialah public figure mcm Hanis, eloklah simpan dulu elok2.. ahkak memang meluat orang dok becintan-cintun dalam fb mcm kan ko sorang je ada bf/gf.. tapi sebab orang tu bukan public figure so nobody cares pon.. lagipon betul lah, kena pikir siapa reader kita, kena jaga hati sana sini..dan tanggapan orang kat kita.. kang kata gatal mengenyam plak.. kita gak yang buruk...so conclusion nye, hanis memang bijak.. eh haku dah macam makcik-makcik T______T hehe

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  49. roseSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:05 AM

    seriously this is good advice. I would delete every single thing on my blog..if it has anything to do with the former boyfriend. It's like I want to be clean, from any traces of him. Actually, start a clean slate :p

    So how many times can I delete things if it happens again? And again?

    I'm tempted to write something occasionally, but will try to hold on for dear life. Please don't let me do that. It's going to be messy later, if anything. Have to remind myself every time.

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  50. Namee RoslanSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:21 AM

    betul :) saya setuju with Hanis. I think this is my first comment on ur post . hehe. but em i agreed with those points. plus its only bercinta, kalau tibe2 putus ? takkan nak delete all the post. kan lagi satu kerja nak buat. u got what I mean ? :)

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  51. Syairani TarmiziSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:21 AM

    well, i'm impressed! Good job HZ.. yawww :)

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  52. Sarah KhanSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:22 AM

    Yep, totally agreed! I pun naik meluat gak setiap masa nak update status or entry dgn bf/gf kan. get a life lah! hahaha

    better kita cerita pasal family ker, academic ker so benda yang positif remaja yg lain boleh ikut.

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  53. sayakayrulezSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:31 AM

    part last best..
    "best men win=husband!"

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  54. TrendysiteSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:31 AM

    stuju dgn kak..sy pun nak mula start bloging...

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  55. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:37 AM

    hee. love this. i have a bf too. so,1st time berblog i have no point. just utk write a lil bit for bf since i went work away in jb. then after that,mule berblog seriously. no lovey dovey at all. just a lit selitkan He in it. hewhewhew. hehe. love this entryyyy :D

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  56. Atiqah WadiahSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:39 AM

    betol..x semestinya orang suka baca belog kita whne we talk about ur bf kan?

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  57. Nazrul AshraffSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:45 AM

    hoho. u r really good la. tak nak buat buku motivator ke..haha. but jangan guna bahasa skema. use ur own word. sure gempak! ayat sendiri! santai cm gini. sure laris!

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  58. amier azrul aliasSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:48 AM

    agree!
    haha

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  59. lemonadeSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:00 AM

    another entry of HZ that shows her maturity...I'm impressed. Anyway, even bila dah ada hubby pun takyah la diexposed sgt...simpan je rapat2 dlm almari :D

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  60. husnaSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:12 AM

    nice entry, sy kagum dengan anda.

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  61. IeqahgajahSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:16 AM

    totally agreee dear.. nanti nk share laa tips ni.. :)

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  62. Fira hilwaSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:41 AM

    tersenyum baca entri ni.
    gud points, hanis. moga entri ni dpt bg pengajaran pd bloggers/readers :)
    bosan tgk org yg dok tayang BF yg blm tentu jd hak milik kekal.

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  63. Asyiqin Yunos,September 23, 2011 at 2:17 AM

    agreed!

    menyampah sebenarnye tengok orang duk cerita pasal boyfriend je kat blog. konon iloveyouforever n i will marry you stuff tp few months after that buat post sedih sebab dah break up.

    see, kan i dah judge orang lain. so better avoid buat post macam tu untuk tutup mulut orang.

    i pernah buat post ni, http://niqiys.blogspot.com/2011/04/over-exposure.html .

    it's something similar to what you just post. oh n btw, semalam baru je cakap kat kawan. 'i like hanis zalikha. she's famous yet she never reveal much about her life'. then ttibe u buat post ni. haha

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  64. UnknownSeptember 23, 2011 at 5:09 AM

    i really liked ur word,"Takpelah, biar kami angau berdua sahaja.Last time I checked, love is between two people".lagipun,maybe sy akan brhenti baca belog ni kot klu tiap kali update asyik menepek ayat terjun lautan api sanggup ku kuak lentang..ehehe peace yaw ;) tekok beriuh

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  65. blog-tips-kurusSeptember 23, 2011 at 5:23 AM

    good job hamis aka Hanis!!

    (from your 'future boss'! hoho!)

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  66. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2011 at 6:47 AM

    very very perfect!!! ;)

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  67. ASeptember 23, 2011 at 7:34 AM

    EXACTLY!! SETUJU 100000000000000000000000000 KALI.
    hehe

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  68. Ani InherownSeptember 23, 2011 at 7:38 AM

    so true. thank you so much for this post. so much ! i went through this and i know how bad it'll turned into. regret much but somehow i appreciate more on having such experiences so that i wont repeat the same mistakes again in future.

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  69. m.qSeptember 23, 2011 at 7:48 AM

    cool post :)

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  70. NanakSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:33 AM

    thumbs up HZ!

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  71. FaznFazSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:51 AM

    awak sangat comel!!!

    but true though... only 'hasben' yang boleh dibuat entry!!!! hew! hew! hew!

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  72. y2jSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:52 AM

    Well said,Hanis..

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  73. Mak IzzSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:57 AM

    so TRUE hanis. kalo dh jd hasben pun kena simpan cerita juga, sekali sekala bolehla nk publish dlm blog. bkn apa, kta x tahu jodoh kita panjang mana, semuanya ketentuan Allah.

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  74. Ain AmalinaSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:58 AM

    good job keknis. :) love ur entry. adorable blogger.... bagusla.ada part dlm life xperlu kita nak expose.

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  75. LuN@_aiDiSeptember 23, 2011 at 9:14 AM

    i like 10000000000000x dis entri hanis!! gud job!
    btoii bukan sume boleh di publish sesuka suki hati kita,
    even kat belog sndrk.
    laen ler kita sendrik jer yg membaca belog kiter sendrik! yea dop!

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  76. UnknownSeptember 23, 2011 at 9:40 AM

    yup setuju...
    bila nak introduce encik husben itu...hehehe...

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  77. skunksenn zoneSeptember 23, 2011 at 9:43 AM

    sgt setuju.mmg myampah baca blog yg asyik cerita pasal bf msng2..macam dia sorg ja ada partner dlm dunia..pastu bila clashh ddk buat ayat sedih durjana plak dekat blog..ishhhhhhhhhh

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  78. zella ySeptember 23, 2011 at 9:44 AM

    sgt setuju! ;)

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  79. Qaseh ChempakaSeptember 23, 2011 at 9:59 AM

    yup!.. setuju.. itu privacy kite..so no need utk bgtau org len..

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  80. BeLLa BeLLaSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:05 AM

    agree! kalo blog dh cerita psl fmly, kucing, jalan2, shopping..kene jugak la simpan sikit...
    lg2 kesian dekat kawan2 alisya.hehe..sangat comel kene pikir kan semua reader punya hati...

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  81. Eiza GreenAppleKu September 23, 2011 at 10:24 AM

    LIKE JUTA2 LEMON DENGAN ARTIKEL NIH. : )

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  82. Eiza GreenAppleKu September 23, 2011 at 10:24 AM

    LIKE JUTA-JUTA LEMON DENGAN ARTIKEL NIH. : )

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  83. IndukDenSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:25 AM

    boto tu Hanis oiii...induk yg dah nak masuk warga omeh ni..selalu gak nak termuntah dok baca status anak2 nih!!!

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  84. papotSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:26 AM

    Kira nak kata ada partner la ni sbnrnya? Hihihihi

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  85. Suriayati Datu MudinSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:30 AM

    yup yup yup betul2 paling suka tengok fesyen hanis hihihi

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  86. melorSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:39 AM

    saya sangatlah bersetuju yang arif. :)))

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  87. Pesona AlgebraSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:39 AM

    thumbs up Kak Hamis :P

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  88. Pesona AlgebraSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:39 AM

    thumbs up Kak Hamis :P

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  89. LauraSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:40 AM

    Brilliant article Hanis... especially tang reader/viewer tuh. I am a lecturer myself, and sometime I garuk kepala tgk perangai student I yg add I dalam FB.. dorang tak ingat ker yg dorang dah add lecturer dorang dlm FB... Even I sendiri pon berpada-pada in sharing, tak kelas ler kalau student baca i tulis "terasa stupid hari ni sbb tak paham ekonomi".. what da?!

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  90. aienSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:45 AM

    Brilliant Minded HZ..keep it up!!gurl(maybe ur i'm ur FUTURE LEC..hehe:)

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  91. Izzatul AzmaSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:49 AM

    Likeeeeeee ! Glad that now I have a husband and can feature him in the blog :P

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  92. SofeaSeptember 23, 2011 at 11:10 AM

    Saya suka cara kak hanis tulis. Cool sangat! Haha. Betul juga apa kak hanis cakap tu :D

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  93. Iryani AzlanSeptember 23, 2011 at 11:30 AM

    Agreed with you Hanis. Dah kahwin nak reveal sapa husband ke, nak lovey dovey ke dah tak kisah dah. Hehe

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  94. Rohani HashimSeptember 23, 2011 at 11:39 AM

    stuju....;)

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  95. Itri ZabidiSeptember 23, 2011 at 11:59 AM

    heee..btl gak kan..:)

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  96. DorySeptember 23, 2011 at 12:44 PM

    lOVE IT! i always keep my love life private.

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  97. Mama Syabil and RaniaSeptember 23, 2011 at 12:47 PM

    :)

    Saya, kalau en. Asben pun kurang jugakk nak cite kat blog ni. Bersifat jeles gitu. My asben, mine alone... hehhe, buleh gitu?

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  98. NenetPenne (NP)September 23, 2011 at 12:53 PM

    ya betul..sebab u dah famous..tak boleh simply tulis sesuka hati..
    i tak per, tak ada orang kenal i..hikssss

    good hanis..sejuk kak nanie dapat dotter mcm u nih..

    beauty with brain...that is what u are...

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  99. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:03 PM

    haha..good one. betina baru ex-bf aku bole baca ni. blog dia..yarabi, penuh kisah cinta cintun depa. siap cite mcm mana kenal, mcm mana kapel, bg hadiah apa, dating buat apa, dating kat mana. gamba depa pn penuh kat blog. *promote diri ke apa? huh, dahla dasar perempuan yg mengambil hak org. takpa2. ada balasnya nnti. :P

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  100. latyshazSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:09 PM

    hmm....my hubby is very private person khasnya bab2 personal and private life. So, he refuse to reveal me and the children on anything tak kisah la FB ke, Twitter ker dan apa2 la sewaktu dgnnya. So, I pun try my very best not to reveal him to the public through fb ker, twitter ker and apa2 la yang sewaktu dengannya.

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  101. Yana HalimSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:12 PM

    betul tu hanis. setuju sangat! nak tunggu hasben tu siapa orangnya. ahaks!

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  102. Cik JahSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:28 PM

    so true. i like :)

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  103. Aimi NadirahSeptember 23, 2011 at 1:42 PM

    haah la its true 100%. nanti bila ada stalker yang minat kat boyfriend/girlfriend kita mesti kita yang nyesal di kemudian hari tskk T__T

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  104. Hood KamilSeptember 23, 2011 at 2:28 PM

    lay low is the best..=D

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  105. Rina RahamatSeptember 23, 2011 at 2:29 PM

    BETUL!!!! Bukan semua benda kita boleh share kpd dunia kan...

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  106. cLovErXSeptember 23, 2011 at 2:49 PM

    hahaha..i love your future life partner's name - Hasben

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  107. Kak Uda ilaSeptember 23, 2011 at 3:39 PM

    Hanisss... akakk sukaaa bacaaa... cool

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  108. sangpemimpiSeptember 23, 2011 at 3:49 PM

    bercerita pasal gf/bf bagai nak rak bila dh terputus tgh jln malu pun bagai nk rak jugak..

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  109. eielaSeptember 23, 2011 at 4:41 PM

    a'a, tak semua kita kena cerita dalam blog sebenarnya kan.

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  110. FatenSeptember 23, 2011 at 5:02 PM

    terbaiklah! concur that, hanis!

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  111. Tuan DinSeptember 23, 2011 at 5:03 PM

    betullah kata Mama...
    Hanis seorang yg matang...
    sy juga berpendapat yg sama...
    sy tak taruk gambar Wife sy dlm Blog or FB, tapi kalu gathering sy bawa...
    ctg buruk dah byk... macm bloger kita yg glamor amor tu duk cerita pasal bf, sampai bertunang bagai... filing2.. alih2 putus tunang tak muat surat khabar nak cover story,... Blog pulak takkan nak tutup!!! jenuh nak delet entry2 lama...
    SYABAS HANIS!!!!

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  112. UnknownSeptember 23, 2011 at 5:14 PM

    wah....
    comelnye statement u hanis
    'Jadi apakata siapa yang menang (best man wins gitueww) je, boleh difeaturekan. Nama dia : Hasben.'

    the best man will featured in the special entry .yeah.

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  113. shazikaSeptember 23, 2011 at 5:16 PM

    suka giler entry ni. Dh tau dr dulu lg hanis tak buat entry pasal love love ni. so, i ikut style hanis kat blog try tak cter ttg tu. malu dan mcm x patut utk di cter.

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  114. Atiqah SyazwaniSeptember 23, 2011 at 7:10 PM

    that's true...kebanyakkn org suka story'morry bout psgn kt blog..bila da putus caci'maki...tahpape..ngee xD

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  115. -:-September 23, 2011 at 7:25 PM

    wahhh..tetiba khairul fahmi che mat aka apexx puji cara penulisan u kat twitter dia td....
    “@fahmiapexs: Aku kagum dgn care penulisan blogger famous hanis zalikha beauty with brain”

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  116. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2011 at 7:28 PM

    simple
    senang faham
    menarik


    banyak benarnya. renung sama2.

    suka you, kak hanis :)

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  117. cg4disSeptember 23, 2011 at 7:35 PM

    agree wif u hanis =)

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  118. cik tyqahSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:02 PM

    great opinions come with great mind~~betul tu hanes~~

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  119. NERSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:53 PM

    very true. Bagus nya Hanis tegas dlm berblog, ada yg terlalu khusyuk nak berblog smpi cerita mcm2.

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  120. AsyuMustafaSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:55 PM

    terbaeek la hanis!!!!!...like ber juta kali!!!=)....las word..."hasbend!!!=)

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  121. Miss Mirror a.k.a SamSeptember 23, 2011 at 8:58 PM

    Totally agree with you Hanis. Suka dgn cara u berfikir. Keep it that way!

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  122. BeYLa!September 23, 2011 at 9:23 PM

    Ohmegoshhh. Terase terasee wooo. Haha bagos ahh kek niss nihh.

    Mmg pk sume pmbace yg mmbacenye~
    Yee btol tuu kt fb kt blog kt mane2 online ni cm nak dpt public figure jee.


    Katenyeh nak tell the world how much he/she love you.tp kdg2 naek gelii jugak bace klu setiap mase nak manje2.its privatee oke~ :)

    But skali skale pleasee nak tgok jugakk kek niss berjiwangg bersweet.alololo~ hikhik. (*^_^*)

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  123. tieha ismailSeptember 23, 2011 at 10:36 PM

    haaaa betul tu...jangan show off sangat pasangan kita...banyak bahayanya sebab nanti kata2 orang tu, jadi satu doa pulak....

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  124. Sayidah Nafisah RuslanSeptember 24, 2011 at 1:57 AM

    nak kawen sok, jangan nak berahsia pulak ek.. hehe

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  125. ♥nyeto89♥September 24, 2011 at 2:06 AM

    true!! :D

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  126. Ariena HishamSeptember 24, 2011 at 3:17 AM

    I do agree with u :) Just be like a normal. Don't too over to show off our partner to public.

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  127. Puteri Kayangan?@#$%????September 24, 2011 at 8:51 AM

    Salam pekenalan ..cantik sungguh orangnya :)

    Umi pun setuju ..kalau selalu citer pasal bf selalu sangat nanti org pun tak berapa nak terima ..

    Nice blog ..chayo2!

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  128. Noni SafuaniSeptember 24, 2011 at 9:43 AM

    a definite true..unless show off is our biggest trait..so let us blog for something more useful and informative for the readers, right?

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  129. Elih JapaharSeptember 24, 2011 at 10:15 AM

    Tepat sekali Hanis :)

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  130. Faz.MSeptember 24, 2011 at 10:56 AM

    sy pun setuju jgk la Hanis..mmg pun..lbh baik kita simpan dr share to public..risiko tggi wo..lg la mcm Hanis yg da mcm public figure..wlpn la ramai yg nk tau who's your bf..better keep it then share it..bahaya if in future anything bad happens to both of u... :)

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  131. athirahSeptember 24, 2011 at 11:24 AM

    nice...

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  132. PrimadonaSeptember 24, 2011 at 12:33 PM

    yeah agreed dengan semua pernyataan diatas.Tak semua benda kita boleh ceritakan dengan orang lainkan.haha

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  133. PoshSeptember 24, 2011 at 12:39 PM

    Spot on! I personally feel we should keep our love life or lovey dovey story low or "you & me" that kind of thing. The less you tell the more people wanna know so be it...your privacy, your choice.

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  134. CintaZulaikhaSeptember 24, 2011 at 2:42 PM

    hakhakhakhakhak..setuju dek non..hasben jugak yg the best of the best..

    singgah lalu~~

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  135. sgt'SSSeptember 24, 2011 at 3:45 PM

    macam...."1 sepakan penalti yg memang ditujukan kat penjaga gawang,dannnnn...arghhhh...gagal dikekang dgn kemas disitu.."
    akhirnya bdn tbakar sbb gigih brenang dilahutan hapi. NICE 1 !!

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  136. Nadratul SyazwanaSeptember 24, 2011 at 3:49 PM

    What an awesome entry :D love it!

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  137. Mars Mell-oSeptember 24, 2011 at 5:24 PM

    betul tu :)

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  138. Aisyah JamilSeptember 24, 2011 at 7:16 PM

    hoho agreed! comel jee ayat hahaha

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  139. Princesa3290September 24, 2011 at 7:20 PM

    hanis zalikha memang lah upin...

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  140. Ni caSeptember 24, 2011 at 10:23 PM

    sangat sangat sangAT setuju. terutama perempuan ;)

    tak perlu expose sangat life story mory pasangan centa hati :) tak manis..hewheww

    tp kalu da rajin menaip, apa kata, pi buat satu blog private, hah. senang deh

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  141. Cheida_MymeeSeptember 24, 2011 at 11:53 PM

    u are the right... baru becinta dah over letak pic and post2 psal bf/gf kat wall post... then break up.. then dapat new bf/gf, buat bnda yg sama lg.. eeeuuuwww...

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  142. niesh™September 25, 2011 at 12:09 AM

    i love this entry. baru je habis menyampah dgn budak2 yang update status d fb yang sangat2 menyengalkan.

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  143. JMRSeptember 25, 2011 at 12:17 AM

    ada je idea ko nis..hehehe

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  144. AdahunnySeptember 25, 2011 at 4:31 PM

    i like your stand hanis. well written!!

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  145. fizaismailSeptember 25, 2011 at 8:31 PM

    totally agree wit u!!!!da selalu sgt blog pasl bf yg tecinta.padhal bkn ape pun.lg2 yg ckp xde gg.huhuh..kalo nk xde gg ngn hasben ok gak.kehkeh..people2 dont 2 excited cite psl ur luv k.xjd kang malu2.tetibe kutuk2 mcm nk pengsan..

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  146. KenSeptember 25, 2011 at 10:11 PM

    110% on "Love is between two people"..feeling over the top pun boleh buat orang lain menyampah..mcm kat FB..ade pasangan tu..panjang meleret nak bercintan cintun kat comment box fb tu..why don't they express the feeling or chit chat over real medium? Handphone kan ade..nak sngt orang lain baca kisah perbualan drg tu kat fb.. hampeh..

    btw, love this post ^_^

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  147. YuyuSeptember 25, 2011 at 10:15 PM

    saya setuju keknis...buat apa jaja cerita personal tentang bf dalam entry.baca sendiri pun rasa geli apatah lg readers.malu la..malu..

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  148. UnknownSeptember 26, 2011 at 8:18 AM

    yup.. it's better only your husband can be featured.. you got points.. i love it all.. :)

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  149. nurulhidayahSeptember 26, 2011 at 8:19 AM

    yup.mcam takde story lain nak dicerita dengan bahsa takde gigi tu lagi.Haiya.:)

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  150. Hani Syahida ✿September 26, 2011 at 9:16 AM

    terbaikkk (boboiboy)

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  151. LSSeptember 26, 2011 at 10:43 AM

    Yo HZ.

    Apa agaknya perasaan adik Jejariruncing kalau dia baca entry ni?

    Cheers.

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  152. AisyaSeptember 26, 2011 at 11:20 AM

    yes, totally agree! that was really usefull for new blogger =)hy kak anis! hehe

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  153. rintzpalilSeptember 26, 2011 at 12:08 PM

    Saya setuju. Ada sesetengah benda yang perlu kita simpan untuk diri sendiri.

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  154. muhammad SaufySeptember 26, 2011 at 1:50 PM

    memiliki cinta yg tiada keraguan adalah puncak kenikmatan kepada seorang hamba. sebagaimana yg dicintai itu tidak sempurnya, sejauh itulah cinta itu akan ditumpangi keraguan.

    insyallah,kawan-kawan disini mendoakan you bahagia.

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  155. UnknownSeptember 26, 2011 at 3:50 PM

    kita suka entri ni!

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  156. UnknownSeptember 26, 2011 at 5:25 PM

    janji mereka hepi dh la....

    =)

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  157. UnknownSeptember 26, 2011 at 7:17 PM

    walaupun ak ni penyayang, tapi stil muntah gak bace public love berderet setiap 5 min kat fb.

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  158. EykaSeptember 26, 2011 at 9:20 PM

    ok sentap 456786789 kali..hahaha-.-

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  159. cheyra_sajerSeptember 26, 2011 at 11:08 PM

    hehe jln2

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  160. b o g iSeptember 26, 2011 at 11:34 PM

    paannndaiii cik nis! :D

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  161. b o g iSeptember 26, 2011 at 11:38 PM

    tapi kan, mcm dah tau2 je nak tukar-tukar bf lak nih... hehehe

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  162. jas imranSeptember 27, 2011 at 1:41 PM

    setuju sangat ayat yang last skali...

    Jadi apakata siapa yang menang (best man wins gitueww) je, boleh difeaturekan. Nama dia : Hasben.


    hehe... nasib baik dah kawin baru setat berbelog. kalau tak maybe tercerita juga pasal si partner tu. hehe

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  163. lily lotusSeptember 27, 2011 at 3:40 PM

    tak sempat pulak nak merasa, dulu masa belum kawen takde blog..uhuk uhuk

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  164. Love me like you doSeptember 27, 2011 at 5:12 PM

    2 thumbs up dear

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  165. JeptSeptember 27, 2011 at 5:34 PM

    xpe..biar sy mengaku..saya la bf hanis sebenarnye..hahahaha.. :p

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  166. AlinkiwiSeptember 27, 2011 at 5:56 PM

    hahahah....tu lahh..ada blogger duk cite pasal bf..n then die...n then die clash die smbung balik...dulu dok kutuk...kan ke dh malu...

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  167. ninja girl (:September 27, 2011 at 11:56 PM

    http://hanizahanan.blogspot.com check mine :D huhu.go hanis go!

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  168. Lina ChanSeptember 28, 2011 at 12:24 AM

    Salam Hanis. :-)

    Saya baru je post entry pasal my hubby. Then terbaca your entry. Terus rasa seronok.

    Bagi yang terkena, mesti terasa pedas semacam. Apapun ini kira nasihat berguna. Ok apa.

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  169. Shahada FauziSeptember 28, 2011 at 10:07 AM

    ahahaha..comel je entry ni tau..like it!

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  170. johanabdSeptember 28, 2011 at 3:33 PM

    can't disagree more...just look at famous bloggers irene n cikepal..rasa nak muntah baca bila asek sebuk ckp bf/tunang masing2..hmm..last time i follow diorang..but now dah nyampah nak bace..bile tgh syok bercinta komain puji melambung..bile dh clash komain kesat bahasa dlm entries..mongok...

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  171. Alya SyaqieraSeptember 28, 2011 at 5:32 PM

    love tis hanis!

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  172. erleenaSeptember 28, 2011 at 6:32 PM

    betol2 ! skongg even i sndri letak tp time by time i do realise about it and takde la nk jiwang2 consider readers la kan :)

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  173. n.a.j.w.aSeptember 28, 2011 at 9:37 PM

    very nice write up..btw, i have Calvin Klein perfume to give away.. check out my blog and join the contest..free maaa..tak mau ka?

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  174. FarizAtieSeptember 29, 2011 at 3:48 PM

    agree with u cik hanis cun!!

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  175. UnknownSeptember 29, 2011 at 9:10 PM

    Yup, it's really true. But ada jugak yang okay.

    Best this entry. :)

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  176. PojanOctober 2, 2011 at 11:33 AM

    Artikel FTW! :)

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  177. Queen of HeartsOctober 2, 2011 at 1:59 PM

    agreed my darlings ! and Im sure someone yang terkenal akan tersentap dengan your entry kali ne . oh yeah !

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  178. zaty isaOctober 4, 2011 at 3:09 PM

    yes !tk payah nk show sgt kalau tgh hangat bercinte .kang bila da break mula la jadi bodoh .cam slalu org ckp time kapel 'baby' bila break 'babi' .time kapel 'sayang' bila break 'bangang' .time kapel 'hi darling' bile break bye 'anjing' .time kapel 'handsomenye' bile break 'sakai nye' .time kapel 'i love you ,ok bye' bile break 'i hate you cibai ' .dah break baru mencarut sane sini .:)

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  179. AnonymousOctober 4, 2011 at 3:25 PM

    okay.. we get what u're trying to say.. now tell us.. who is your boyfriend? XÞ~

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  180. Aimi RosliOctober 7, 2011 at 2:21 AM

    good point

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  181. lightnurOctober 7, 2011 at 3:57 PM

    saye suke baca ini~~~

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  182. lightnurOctober 7, 2011 at 3:57 PM

    saye suke baca ini~~~

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  183. tukang tulisOctober 12, 2011 at 4:16 PM

    huhu~~ i like laa..
    mmg pon..ape la benefitnyee g tayang cte psl bf/gf nih..
    publicity je lebey...ni style budak2 je k..

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  184. afifsOctober 14, 2011 at 6:51 PM

    serious agree!!!! love u lah hamis!!!!!

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  185. Qzara.comOctober 20, 2011 at 1:04 AM

    hmmmm...

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  186. mamashikinOctober 25, 2011 at 4:15 PM

    betul tu keknis..
    bagus entri ni..mengingatkan pd semua yg suka tnjuk bf kt blog/fb..yg jiwang...

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  187. Lynn RahmanFebruary 10, 2012 at 6:04 PM

    agree!

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