Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Save Yourself From Heartache

Heartbreak is inevitable. Even in a seemingly happy relationship, heartaches occur when expectations are not met or when word is inconsistent with deeds. People make mistakes, slack off and overall imperfect. There’s only two ways to it; it could either make the relationship stronger, or break it. Dwell or move on, your call. In the end, it all comes down to the two of you because relationship is only as strong as the people in it.

When my heart aches, I can’t sleep. I lose track of time. I hang my head upside down from the couch. I spend longer time on prayer mat. I also seek comfort from chocolate and music.

Chocolate: Dove Chocolate.
Music: Straight from my sombre playlist; what an emo girl listens to when she loses herself in her emo Me-Time Moments.

The Scientist by Coldplay.
Admit it. When you’re miserable, you listen to this song and nod in agreement to every word Chris sings. Sampai hafal, sampai muak-muak. Sampai bila hati sakit lagi, dengar lagu ini takde feel dah sebab overrated.



Heartbreak Warfare by John Mayer.




Slow Dancing in A Burning Room by John Mayer.
I don’t know how much heartbreak this guy has gone through-- but if it means more emo songs from his genius lyrical mind, we aint complaining. Lagu ini sedih sebab sedap tapi sedih. Macam cerita Kabhi Kushi Kabhi Gham dan Qabil Qushry Qabil Igam, sedap tapi sedih. Layan tapi nangis.




Kasih Tak Sampai by Padi
Baca tajuk terus-menerus mengerti situasi.




Wonderful World by James Morrison.
Ini memang lagu dodoikan tidur waktu hati menangis apabila air mata telah kering. 




Harder To Breathe by Maroon 5.
Lagu kegemaran untuk yang beremosi tapi ganas luarannya. Seperti I. Okay mu pong ganah jugok.



Emosi perlu dilayankan, perasaan perlu dibelai. Jangan ignore keperluan hati, tapi make sure berpada-pada. Kalau not worth it, jangan dipanjangkan cerita. Terima kasih Dove Chocolate yang membuahkan entri ini dan membantu saya go through emotional phase. Bila emo, music and chocolate are a girl’s bestfriend, kan? 


 And by the way, sekarang ada pek Dove chocolate yang lebih besar (80g!). Takdelah cepat sangat habis makan waktu jiwang karat.

CHOCOLATE IS THE BEST HUMAN INVENTION!
 From left: 66% cacao dark chocolate, milk chocolate, hazelnut & raisin milk chocolate.

Sekarang sila share dengan saya, lines from your favourite sad songs yang you dengar sambil memujuk hati. Maybe I could listen to it on my next emotional Me-Time Moment with silky smooth Dove Chocolate.


86 comments:

  1. kalau tengah sakit hati dan marah pada kekasih boleh dengar lagu "I Hate Everything About You" by Three Days Grace.

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  2. Hanis ! Baru je malam tadi beli Dove chocolate ni. Tak sampai 5 minit dah habis. hehe :)

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  3. you're frozen, when your heart's not open...

    nak Dove! :)

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  4. alamak..teringin pulak nk mkn cokelat pepagi ni..hehehe

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  5. Well since you already have a list of breakup songs let me give u some songs that I think might help someone at the breakup - healing phase. lol

    Glee (Santana) - Songbird

    Maria Mena - Calm under the waves

    Lenka - Live like you're dying

    Nicole - you will be loved

    Priscilla Ahn - Lullaby

    I think thats more than enough :-)

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  6. Hi Hanis... u should try to listen this one of my heart break song..i mean, jika tgh patah hati sy mesti dengar lagu ini:

    "Who doesn't long for someone to hold,
    Who knows how to love you without being told,
    Somebody tell me why I'm on my own,
    If there's a soulmate for everyone.. "
    - Natasya Bedingfield: Soulmate-

    selamat mendengar! :)

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  7. A bit cliche but still, my favorite, Someone Like You by Adele.
    "I hate to turn up out of the blue, uninvited
    But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it
    I had hoped you'd see my face and that you'd be reminded
    That for me, it isn't over"

    Break my heart into pieces, more.

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  8. agreed... memang music dan chocolate menjadi teman rapat ketika sedih.. huuu dan betul juga perasaan dan hati perlu juga dilayan.. tapi tak boleh melayan sampai melebih2..

    Lagu pecah hati saya banyak dari Fynn.. sila dengar Suatu Pernah..sangat dekat pada hati-hati yang pecah...

    suka juga dengar Jars of Heart - Chirtina Perry, Someone Like You - Adele...

    Semoga cik HZ cepat sembuh yah...long way to go.. :)

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  9. Hanis tengah berduka ke.....

    Cheer up gal..!

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  10. kisah dongeng - stacy
    "ku sedar ku tak seberapa...
    jika di banding mereka..
    yg jauh lebih megah..
    dari diri ini.."

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  11. Eh tak berduka. Hanya article guide to berduka. LOL.

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  12. pergh.....trus ilang kesedihan biler tgk cekelat dove itu..aish :p

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  13. forever love - gary barlow..
    ouchhhh... :(

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  14. Hi Hanis.. This is my 1st time commenting your blog I believe...

    Well I tau apa yang dirasakan. even though lelaki, i undestand the situation.... but mine vice versa yours...

    In my life i have plan, i have my own track to travel, but when something unpredictable happen... terus cam.. booom! habis semua...


    seolah-olah ktia tak der haluan hidup... memang gila babs lah waktu tu..

    but that phase akan hilang... soon... cuma jangan jadikan ianya "kehidupan mematangkan kita" kerana kadang2 perkara macam ni berlaku, tapi kita tak nak ianya berulang selalu.. sampai hati kita kering betul..?

    so have faith in your life.. :D

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  15. Switchfoot best.....
    lagi2 lagu "You"....
    slow rock but boleh lyn time jewanggg

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  16. the day you went away-m2m and breakeven-the script

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  17. the day you went away-m2m and breakeven-the script

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  18. Everybody Hurts - Avril Lavigne

    Sort Of - Ingrid Michaelson

    Skinny Love (Bon Iver Cover) - Birdy

    Littlest Things - Lily Allen

    Suara Hati Seorang Kekasih - Melly Goeslow

    lagu-lagu emosi yang lepas dah sedar benda sedih tu takdelah drama mana rasa nak lempang diri ini sebab emosi sampai macam tu sekali.

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  19. Chocolate is heaven :)
    Jemput singgah ke Kedai online saya, TQ
    http://duniakecilkuini.blogspot.com/

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  20. baru turn legal dah heartbreak~~~
    hukhukhuk....

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  21. my heart will go on - celine dion

    :)

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  22. Avril - Wish You Were Here
    Christina Perri - Jars Of Heart
    Cher - You Havent Seen the Last of me
    hehe

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  23. when emo-ing,i'll listen to linkin park and fort minor.and eminem. T_T

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  24. element-cinta tk bersyarat
    ukays-lepaskanmu kerana terpaksa

    HAHA

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  25. LA TAHZAN Hanis :)
    Dengar I don't need a man by PCD.
    Jar Of Heart pun boleh jugak..
    Big big World by Emilia..
    I'm not missing you- stacie orrico..

    P/S: Kena beli Dove Choc jugak ahh camni :)

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  26. IF TOMORROW NEVER COME BY RONAN KEATING... :D

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  27. oh keknis.. u just gimme some guidance how to treat my heartache :')

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  28. saye pun stat suke makan coklat dove bile baca blog adik kite neh :)

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  29. hanis,

    try dengar :

    Padi - Semua Tak Sama (lagu makan dalam)
    Awie - Di penjara Janji (rock kapak, sila nyanyi di kareoke room, keluar kan segala suara sumbang)
    Christina Perry - Jar of Heart (nangis dalam shower)
    Wali Band - Puaskah (nangis2 sambil tidur dengan harapan dapat cekik si dia..nghahaha)

    =p

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  30. My favorite heartreak song is - Akhiri Ini Dengan Indah by Jikustik. Heartbreak is saddening, but... we can at least end things beautifully.

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  31. Happy People - Skoop on Somebody
    Tomorrow's Way - Yui
    Stay Away - L'Arc-en-Ciel

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  32. listen to skycrapper - demi lovato.


    :)

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  33. kerispatih - bila rasaku ini rasamu

    padi - menanti sebuah jawaban

    hinder - lips of an angel

    michelle branch - goodbye to you.

    james blunt - goodbye my lover.

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  34. kerispatih - bila rasaku ini rasamu

    padi - menanti sebuah jawaban

    michelle branch - goodbye to you

    james blunt - you're beautiful

    delta goodrem - not me, not i.

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  35. Dear,

    layan pedih dari ella....

    mmg membelai jiwa....

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  36. nice post hanis.. now listening to skyscraper - demi lovato :)

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  37. I dh banyak kali heartbreak. tapi setiap heartbreak ada lagu masing2. tak boleh guna berulang kali. nanti teringat yg lama. uhuk.. recently, i suka sangat dengan lagu Get It Right - Lea Michele (Glee). Syahdu tapi boleh beri semangat. Keep your chin up girl.. :D

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  38. nak jugak menyibuk kat sini...

    fear & frustration- yuna

    sambil kunya marshmallow yg lembut2 tu kasi hancur.. :D

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  39. " And I just ran out of band aids, I don't even know where to start, cause you can bandage the damage, you never really can fix a heart"...Fix A Heart-Demi Lovato

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  40. my fav are mostly from hindi film. just updated my blog about it.. and I love 'fix you' from coldplay and 'dance with my father again' from luther vandross whenever i miss my dad.

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  41. i listen to fuel-hemorrhage when i'm down.. :)

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  42. Adele's songs are amaaazing. Listen to the whole album!

    She's on broken-hearted woman, like me, currently. :(

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  43. teringin gile nk mkn choc dove, tp xde halal JAKIM!.. ;((

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  44. bila hati tengah emo, semua lagu sedih macam ikut rentak sedih sendiri. ahahaha. tapi mmg betul.

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  45. Hanis . I have few songs that i wanted to share with u

    1 ) When You're Gone
    2 ) Wish You Were Here

    Both songs from Avril Lavigne . So, hope this song can help .

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  46. Hi Hanis . I have some songs that could help people in this kind of problem .

    1 ) When You're Gone
    2) Wish You Were Here

    Both songs from Avril Lavigne . The sadness will be better if u sing along with tears in your cheek .

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  47. John Mayer is an amazing artist,a bona fide lyricist and is one hell of a guitar player.Kak Hanis, you have an amazing taste for music :) And if I may suggest, try listening to Bon Iver's 'Skinny Love'

    ..and cry your heart out.jk.

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  48. " what i am supposed to do when the best part of me was always u, what i am supposed to say when im all choked up and u r okay "

    breakeven-the script

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  49. elliot yamin - wait for you

    the mymp - the closer I get to you

    kertas - kekasih yang tak dianggap kekasih

    :)

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  50. James Morrison: Pieces Don't Fit Anymore
    James Morrison: If You Don't Want To Love Me
    Al Green: How Can You Mend A Broken Heart
    ... alamak cannot go on. Skrin dah blur dengan air mata, wiper rosak~

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  51. Turning table - gwyneth paltrow. Better version than adele's

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  52. "I'm a big big girl
    In a big big world
    It's not a big big thing if u leave me
    But I do do feel
    That I do do will
    Miss u much
    Miss u much"

    Ni salah satu je lah yg selalu dengar ;)

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  53. dah makan coklat dove sbb pengaruh keknis kuat sangatt:) suka flavour dark chocolate! keknis suka apa? bagi ah pengaruh sikit flavour apa yang keknis suka nanti boleh terpengaruh then beli lagi hehe :p tapi Dove chocolate sedapp jgk ;)

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  54. "Now I know love can turn to hate in the blink of an eye
    Another lie another alibi
    When your curtain fell heaven turned to hell
    What was real I could never tell"
    In the Blink of an Eye - The Perishers

    "One may think we’re alright
    But we need pills to sleep at night
    We need lies to make it through the day
    We’re not okay"
    Pills-The Perishers

    Senang cakap, the whole album from The Perishers adalah best di layan ketika sedih sebab rasa macam tak rasa sorang2 je rasa macam tu. Rasa macam dia faham apa kita rasa. Rasa macam we're not alone.

    the lyrics poetic, and the melodies are beautiful.

    Kalau tak pernah dengar, silalah sila :)

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  55. "Now I know love can turn to hate in the blink of an eye
    Another lie another alibi
    When your curtain fell heaven turned to hell
    What was real I could never tell"
    In the Blink of an Eye - The Perishers

    "One may think we’re alright
    But we need pills to sleep at night
    We need lies to make it through the day
    We’re not okay"
    Pills-The Perishers

    Senang cakap, the whole album from The Perishers adalah best di layan ketika sedih sebab rasa macam tak rasa sorang2 je rasa macam tu. Rasa macam dia faham apa kita rasa. Rasa macam we're not alone.

    the lyrics poetic, and the melodies are beautiful.

    Kalau tak pernah dengar, silalah sila :)

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  56. currently im addicted to stereo hearts by gym class heroes ft adam levigne. even in moody pon :p


    hee. btw,i baru beli dove ni aritu kt tesco. i love dove choc crispy. lagi sedap dar cadburyyyyy! thANKS. ni influence dari u la :p kt 7e pon ade jual ni. everyday-must-have this dove choc tau :)

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  57. bila frust putus cinta.kata2 motivate sbnrnye membangkitkan semula semangat.

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  58. cik Hanis yang manis,

    untuk menyelamatkan diri I dari kesakitan hati, I akan dengar lagu fav anak I Khalis n ia adalah
    - Twinkle2
    - Bapaku pulang dari kota
    Pastu nangis sensorang dalam ladies tanpa pengetahuan sesiapa. Sure pas nangis akan rs lega punya.

    Tetapi kalau Hanis nak tahu, dalam hp I ada playlist 'Isi Hati' yang terkandung lagu2 ini
    - Di Penjara Janji (Awie)
    - Suara (Hijau Daun)

    huhuhu ;D

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  59. ello...my fav line would be Coldplay's Fix You

    "And the tears come streaming down your face
    When you lose something you can't replace
    When you love someone, but it goes to waste
    Could it be worse?"

    but my favorite break-up anthem would be Christina Perri's "Jar of Hearts" esp the part when she sung "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?" very empowering!

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  60. i don't know if you love korean song, but try listen to these song "I don't care" by 2NE1. Love it when it comes to us girls being fools by a guy, duhhh..haha. these entry is cool ! =)

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  61. the sun ain't gonna shine anymore by keane..

    "loneliness..is a cloak you wear..."

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  62. Hear me cry by Cagnet
    Now you know by Hillary Duff
    Buses & Trains by Bachelor Girl
    Down, Lost without you by Blink182
    Hear you me by Jimmy Eat World
    Masih by Estrella
    Someday by IU
    NEver say Never by The Fray
    Down by Jason Walker
    Outside by Staind
    Please stay with me by Yui

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  63. hanis,sya nk coklat Dove tu...Mcm sedap boleh bagi ckit tak..??

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  64. for now...lagu2 ni sgt menyedapkan ati..(bagi nangis puas2 dlu...pstu baru ati sedap..hhe)

    1.Skyscraper-Demi Lovato
    2.Wish u were here-Avril Lavign
    3.Someone like u-Adele
    4.It will rain-bruno mars

    <3 loving it!

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  65. u better listen to loneliness by babyface....sgt meruntun jiwa wooo...

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  66. Last few weeks I kept listening to Siapa Dihatimu - Rahmat (ok jiwang, so what) hehe.

    This few weeks I listen to "Taking back my love" enrique iglesias feat. Ciara.

    Though both lyrics x kena tepat my situation, but layan la. :)

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  67. Listen to Lorraine Ellison : Stay with Me(Baby)

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  68. hi pagi jelita

    ni my playslist time hati koyak rabak

    1.bruno mars - talking to the moon

    2.bryan adams- everything i do i do it for u

    3.barry manilow- i cant smile without u

    4.n sync- if im not the one

    5.brian mcfadden- like only a women can

    6.slam- gerimis mengundang

    7.eamon- i dont u back

    hahahaha ni koleksi TOTY(track of the year) i

    so u should try too

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  69. saya dah beli coklat dove hazelnut sbb tgk belog ni.. nampak sodap sangat.. bile dah beli was2 plak nak makan sebab tgk xde tanda halal jakim. ingredients pun ada sebut E476.. ada check tak pasal status halal coklat ni? baru nak merasa :(

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  70. Hah.. found another gem topic. Boy this is going to be a long one, but here goes, some of my list

    1.scientist - coldplay (I completely agree with you on this one)

    2.goodbye again - vertical horizon
    "Guess I don't know what's, left to say
    But hear me out
    All of the dreams of, yesterday
    Keep breaking me down
    What's on the outside, can you say
    Or am I getting carried away

    So it's goodbye again
    It's way past time
    For one last try
    So it's goodbye again
    Goodbye... again "

    3.here's to the night - eve 6
    "Here's to the tears you knew you'd cry.Here's to goodbye
    Tomorrow's gonna come too soon"

    4.blower's daughter - damien rice
    "I can't take my mind off you
    'Til I find somebody new "

    5.Every little thing - dishwalla
    "I wish I could be,every little thing you wanted,all the time"

    6.creep - radiohead
    "Im a creep, I'm a weirdo.What the hell am I doing here, I dont belong here"

    7.Yang Ku Tunggu - Anggun
    "yang aku tunggu pasti ku cari"

    8.Sang mantan - Nidji
    "Mana janji manismu,
    Mencintaiku sampai mati"

    9.tercipta untukku - Ungu
    "Aku ingin engkau selalu. Hadir dan temani aku. Di setiap langkah yang menyakiniku Kau tercipta untukku

    10.akhir cinta abadi - Nidji
    "aku pergi dan takkan kembali
    akhir dari cinta yang abadi"

    cukup la kot... got many more, some of which is in my blog. writing the lyrics here pun dah trigger some unwanted memories.. hahaha... it sucks going thru those moments, may you never have to go thru em again..

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  71. the scientiest by coldplay...
    ala2 malas nak nyanyi gituuuu...:)

    Hetty Koes Endang~Hati Hancur Jadi Debu
    ' titik titik noda tertinggal di dalam dada....
    c/o: hanya satu yang kusayangi tiada pengganti hingga saat ini...

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