I've been trying to make myself busy, put on nice clothes and mascara, go out and about, to keep my mind off things.There are a lot of questions I've not answered (recently) after my mom's entry of Bila Anak Dara Saya Putus Cinta. Mom been receiving calls and I've been receiving texts. LOL. Yes, this has gotta be the toughest decision of my life, but I had to do what I had to do. If life is just about me, maybe I could go ahead and decide on whatever my heart desires. But there's so much more to life than just yourself okay. Make the people around you happy and insyallah you'll be happy. It hurts so bad at the first stage though :S
I believe that you have got to be one ungrateful human being to call yourself putus cinta. Because dah putus ke cinta dengan Tuhan, dengan mak bapak, dengan adik-beradik, dengan sahabat handai? Putus cinta is such a big word. And always misleading!
Hello kau belum 20tahun kot asal tulis karangan macam orang tua atas tadi -_-
Sigh.
Hanis putus cinta ke?Go girl,I know you can heal yourself and deserve to get better guy!p(^_^)q
ReplyDeleteoh. you bercinta? and dah putus?
ReplyDeletebut as you said, u're not even twenty.
so.
dont feel bad.its completely human to become emotional sometimes.
ReplyDeletetak apa hanis,u masih muda...maybe itu bukan jodoh u..Allah memberi jodoh yg terbaik untuk u..chillax!
ReplyDeletebagus hanis~
ReplyDeleteteruskan hidupmu!
caiyok!
*komen matang ka ini? hihi :P
lurve to know u such a +ve thinker..be strong dear hanis....
ReplyDeleteif it's meant to be,it will find da way
well love makes u crazy, putting your thoughts on hold just cause....thats just it, just cause....we might feel differently to what we pen out, especially women.(jgn tembak saya) you should know what u want, if he/she doesnt fit in to what you want, then....thats just it isnt it....if u dont know what you want, thats a different story altogether....its part of growing up....damn....*looks at himself in the mirror* i just realized that im a boy stuck in man;s body hahahahehehah
ReplyDeletehehe sebab walaupun baru 20tahun..tapi fikiran dah macam orang 30 tahun :) matang la tuh.
ReplyDeletehihi, that day masa i nampak u 4 da 1stime pun i tak rasa u mcam baya i. erk. :P
oooo... read yr mum's entry, hope everything is ok... if u made the decision to break up because of that reason, i tell you, you're super brave! many just continue their relationships even though they know there's somthing wrong with it. Kudos to u! :)
ReplyDeleteP/s: well, if it is u that yr mum mentioned in her blog. :)
selagi belum kahwin, u have the right to choose which person u want to be with. dan paling penting adalah keserasian awak dgn family dia dan begitu juga dia.
ReplyDeleteLebih baik sakit sekarang dari selepas awak dah ada komitmen besar dengan dia.
life goes on, pretty :)
putus cinta, maknanya Tuhan nak bagi a better man/woman sooner or later
ReplyDelete:)
lol
ReplyDeletebelom cukup lagi 20 ke?
someday, u nee to read my entry regarding marriage and love, not now until i married 1st lah. experience ;)
putus cinta mmg menyakitkan..........:(
ReplyDeleteeh... hanis ke yang putus cinta? dengan dotdotdot tu ke? aik... dni ingat u ols berkawan rapat. hehehe... tak pe hanis... stay cool okay.. kalo nanges2 nanti sembap mata tak ciiiunnn. hanis meh makan cocopie dengan dni meh meh... ^___^
ReplyDeleteputus cinta? kamu akan dpt lebih baik hanis
ReplyDeletehanis, itu mungkin bukan jodoh..lgpun hanis muda lg..InsyaAllah, hanis akan ketemu jodoh yg sempurna bila tiba masa..
ReplyDeletejgn sedey2 sis!! :)
take it easy ya:) u will be fine,hugss.
ReplyDeletehey girl..we are in the same boat i guess...break up...horrible..sdey..but then stop thinking of that stupid nonsense thing..we still ve others...just go on with life..cying in pain..that boy who we love didnt come back...they are happy out there..and we..crying for them...huh...that was rude n cruel!..i hate it..gurl let have a joy ya..
ReplyDeleteAllah menjadikan setiap kejadian dengan rahsia yang tersimpan untuk kita fikirkan. Dia lebih mengetahui apa yang tidak kita ketahui. Redha dan bersyukur dengan ketetapannya. ~Travelog Cinta Abadi:Masa yang berlalu~
ReplyDeleteoh hanis..i know a lil bit bot him..yeh its realy tough decision , i know..n its realy hurt..but dun give up girl, sure there's a guy from u yg dari tulang rusuk dia..
ReplyDeletecheer up girl, enjoy ur single life. its fun too :)
muda lagi...masih jauh lagi perjalanan...sabar dan teruskan kehidupan macam biasa...hanis steady...
ReplyDeletealamak..cam emo plk baca entri u yg ni..
ReplyDeleteits okay hanis.. if u rasa itu yg terbaik buat masa skrg, cekalkan hati, tabahkan perasaan k.
yg penting, elakkan bercakap buruk ttg lelaki yg kita pernah syg.
because, who knows? after 5, or 10 years akhirnya takdir kita bersama dengan dia? tettt..
hehe :D
it hurts. yes it does.
ReplyDeletebut along the way, you will realized, there's no other best way than saying goodbye.
Allah Maha Mengetahui apa y baik untuk hambanya. :)
boyfriend comes and go...but family and friends stick together.Mungkin dia bukan di takdirkan untuk hanis.Insya allah,ada yang lebih baik di luar sana.Hanis masih muda and u have along way to go to meet nice and new people.Be strong hanis ye.kalau stress,depressed, dekatkan diri dengan Allah.Insya allah hati akan tenang.Take care,hanis.
ReplyDeletewell.. its not meant to be, thats all.
ReplyDeleteCheers! :)
Kak Hani@Somethin' Light
kalo dh berkenan..trus ja wat istiqarah.jodoh dh leh nmpk.nak kawen awai or lambat terserah..doa usaha ikhtiar tawakal..
ReplyDelete-pengalaman eden ni-
not even 20, and to speak with such maturity and insight is a JOB WELL DONE...kawan baik hanis, sila bawak dia pegi makan delicious sekarang jugak!!!...
ReplyDeleteMuda lagi. Cintakan benda lain dulu, nanti baru cintakan lelaki.
ReplyDeleteadik hanis memang comel)geram tgk:)tambah2 lagi pakai tudung:)
ReplyDeleteHanis, takpe ..putus cinta.. We know how the feeling is.. tapi u kena banyak-banyak bersabar & think bout yr future. Lagipun babe, you cantik.. no worry pasti ramai lagi yang nak.
ReplyDeletep/s : bila nak singgah blog I yea?
hanis.. jangan risau. petik jari 10 lelaki berderet datang. hihi.. okeh tipu!! u go girl. jangan sedih-sedih. let him go and enjoy urself.
ReplyDeleteRelexs ar beb..kumbang bukan seekor beb..
ReplyDelete* annoying siot * btw jangan cintakan seseorang 100% beb, kang merana..cari orang yang cinta kat hang 100% tak pe..but tengok2 gak ar kan..hehehe, meh aku bagi kau happy hanis..
* KENTUT DIDAHULUKAN, BAU DIUTAMAKN * senyum sikit beb..wa pun time zaman lu selalu macam tu..* ceh poyos * biasa ar kan! huh but cara2 nak hadapinyer bila putus cinta just relexs..dan bila time belajar tu mesti cari seseorang yang famous amous yang kita admire supaya masa belajar tu tak stress ingat ex-bf and fokus masa belajar..huhuhu..! yang penting happy!! :D
riLex...
ReplyDeleteyG pentiNg kamU masiH ada faMili..
:)
putus cinta mmg sakit. harap2 hanis byk2 bersabar dan bzkan diri :)
ReplyDeleteHANIs
ReplyDeletebuangkan mata yg nampak sedih tu jauh2.
go to the brodge,and corss over,leave the sadness behind.I like ur positivity,keep it up dik..
BLING QUEEN
-bling up your blackberry / Iphone / NOKIA
hanis,
ReplyDeletebertabahlah... ada hikmah disebaliknya...
chill... kamu masih muda
ReplyDelete"Hello kau belum 20tahun kot asal tulis karangan macam orang tua atas tadi -_-"
ReplyDeleteowh..tiba-tiba rasa simpati bertukar kepada gelak.
demmit.....hahahaa..go on!
This too shall pass.... and you will look back and laugh bout it ....
ReplyDeleteI'm 30 and just out of a relationship.. believe me when i say that you will never be too young or old to experience love....
just my two cents
Oh poor hamis..
ReplyDeletetime putus cintan mesti banyak ilham kan...hehehe
ReplyDeletecinta bukan mahram itu pujukan nafsu.. and we love it for it. cinta kepada Allah itu pujukan iman.. and we know where we stand.
ReplyDeletelets just say.. the secret to love is marriage. not the other way around. marriage is Ibadah.. loving your bf/gf is not..
it's okey to go out make everything clear..
ReplyDeleteperjalnan masih jauh... dont feel so bad..
you go girl...
hanis, i dulu pun berkali2 putus cinta..from sch to diploma & to degree..end up kawin dgn org yg satu opis. chill babe, muda lagi kan. yg penting study dulu.
ReplyDeleteits ok my dear, dont be shy to show your emotion, only you can feel how hurt it is.And only you can stop it...if u see my blog im full of it..kdg2 terlebih2 gak..huhu. Kalau sedih2, mainla gan your kucing2, insyallah, akan rasa lega sedikit. It works for me..cheerss :)
ReplyDeletekeep going! be tough.=)
ReplyDeletesaye pun baru lepas putus.. and i know how it feels like losing our loved ones. but, life must go on rite? though, u still have ur friends and family around you, that always cheer u up.
ReplyDeletenway, move on and :)))
pengalaman mendewasakan i guess?
ReplyDeletelove is about to dump & been dump..
ReplyDeleteid faced it.. u'll find d right one..percaye deh!!!
putus cinta memang susah hati
ReplyDeleteapatah lagi kalau dah bercerai mcm i ni...
tapi tulah, kena tabahlah
buat2lah sibuk walau tak sibuk mana pun...
buat2lah happy walau tak happy mana pun..
putus cinta bkan bermakna putus cinta kita pada Allah, pada kawan2, pada adik beradik..
bagus juga idea tu yer hanis...
snyum2 slalu
ReplyDeletenak tujukan lagu
long way 2 go kat u
cheers~~
keh keh keh..
ReplyDeletenie sure byk application masuk nie. nak mintak bantuan utk filter?
haha.. :p
erm.. betul.. cinta pada yang cinta...Allah, Parents, Adik-beradik..... b strong!
ReplyDelete*ramai ler arjuna2 kat luar tu yg menggeletik kesukaan skarang nieh!! hehe..
oh
ReplyDeletego hanis!!!!
girl power
Hey Hanis, dah lama tak komen but I still read your blog :) Sad to hear that but you will persevere! When I came out of a 6 years relationship, I was like dying, but look, I'm still here :) Memang perit rasanya at the beginning, but as time goes by, things get better. Go out with friends, have more happy memories to replace the sad ones. All the best!
ReplyDeletesame wif me durl. =.=
ReplyDeletebetul ke putus cinta. :-)
ReplyDeleteenjoy life as it is. love those you still have.
ReplyDeleteif you put yourself in too much pain, you'll lose what you might gain.
:D
hurm..yup hanis..kita x hidup untuk dr sndiri je..so menggembirakan org lain yg bole mnggembirakan diri kita, itulah kehidupan. cinta ngn manusia tak menjamin kita bahagia, tp cinta ngn tuhan itulah segala galanya. so yg ini jgn biarkan terputus. ok? =) be strong.
ReplyDeleteOrang yang membahagiakan orang lain, Allah akan bahagiakan dia.. 'Ssungguhnya Allah sentiasa membantu hamba-Nya selagi mana hamba itu membantu saudaranya.' (Al-hadis)
ReplyDeleteBanyak perkara perlu ditimbang, bukan kita seorang shj, malah orang sekeliling terdekat kita.. selamat bercinta Hanis..
chill hanis!!!
ReplyDeletehidup memang begitu~
tak semuanya indah belaka!
nway, entri kali ini kelihatan matured la..
bahahahahaha
tak seperti entri-entri terdahulu yang selalunya happy and ceria!
all the best hamis jalikha!
oww.. tough life. i'm sure you'll end up with someone better. you're not even 20. but the 1st love will always be the hardest to forget.
ReplyDeletekak hanis dgn mak akk sgt cntek,
ReplyDeletesteady kak hanis,
ramai lagi org yg baek dlm dunie nie utk akak
putus cinta doesnt mean he's not for u :) merujuk entry ur mom, he might lack sumthing but he might change, and so do u. Go with the flow hanis, sakit memang sakit, tp sakit yg buat kita jadi kuat.
ReplyDeletewhatever it is, life goes on. move on....
ReplyDeletemaybe it's good for you my darl...be happy!!!
ReplyDeleteL.O.V.E = belong to you when u r ready..
ReplyDeleteoh dear, you pretty and brilliant.
ReplyDeletesure ramai lagi tergila-gilakan you.
trust me.
kumbang bukan seekor rightt? :)
putus chenta? what the? tak apa. semua tu adalah pengalaman dalam hidup okay. kalau tak rasa macam tu, nanti kamu tak dapat nak nasihat kan orang lain. bila dah rasa senang la nak berkongsi dengan mereka yang akan or yang pernah mengalaminya. by the way saya selalu berpesan kepada diri sesuatu yang pahit di masa lalu bukanlah untuk di tertawakan or di lupakan tapi untuk di jadikan pengajaran dan pembetulan kepada siri dan orang lain. bukan kah begitu cik hamis jalikha. chill babe
ReplyDeletebyk lagi lelaki untuk you ( :
ReplyDeleteawww, takpa. we're still young! enjoy your life dulu before nak bagi commitment. heheh.
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heyy be strong okay
ReplyDeletewow! i never read sumtin like this in ur blog before! ;P u'll get better one after this. if u do, let us know, ya?
ReplyDeletep/s-ur lucky to have a cool mum and awesome family!
dearest hanis,
ReplyDelete"...But it is possible that you dislike a thing which is good for you, and that you love a thing which is bad for you. But Allah knows, and you know not."~albaqarah,216 :)
everyone is supporting you ♥
ReplyDeleteAik, bila Hanis bercinta..?
ReplyDeleteLove??nowadays??nahh..money comes first!!haha!
ReplyDeletesuka giiilaaa siblings anda. suma imaginasi tinggi dan korang pun memang tinggi (tu yang paling best kot --' heh)
ReplyDeleteanyway, hamis, baca ni;
http://waniardy.com/blog/?p=6728
seronok woh. lepas tu boleh senyum sorang2. hee~
its ok dear..let it b part of ur life experience...
ReplyDeletecome to my blog...
novel online yg baru di post..sila la baca and leave ur comment..
:)
ouh betul lah tadi si zara cakap umor ko belum 20 tahun.
ReplyDeletesalam. hanis, i knw u're not in a good mood right now. but i think u dont have to share your problem so public like this. it's like u're looking for sympathy. it's not good. mature ppl wont share their problems with strangers. it's enough if u share it with your beloved ones. ni semua pun tahu masalah u, macam2 orang respon nanti. u jgk yg susah hati. chill okey? semua org pun ada masalah masing2. kena pandai handle. keep praying and insyaAllah He will help you :)
ReplyDeletehanis putus cinta ke??
ReplyDeletexpela..pmpuan baik utk llaki baik..
i dah tgk u blakon dalam momok..
nicee
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Thanks everyone :')
ReplyDeleteOpss..relax n chill babe..
ReplyDeletethere are many dude outside!
+ u da top skang..
no wonderlah..:)
hehe
u'll be okay :)
ReplyDeletehehe...be cool! :)
ReplyDeletejangan putus asa
ReplyDeletebeb..xslh ada otak tua sket..janji dlm hati ada taman surga..chinta adalah pegangan..tiada paksaan dlm menuntutnya..akan muncul pabila manusia bosan dgn keghelapan (muntahdarah: abis ghelap terbit terang) di jemput smua ke blog hamba..http://muntahdarah-muntahdarah.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeletekalo putus smbung blik.try ikat klo xcntik try gam blik..hee :)
ReplyDeletesenyum je.
lupe..im new.
ReplyDeleteso nk ckp,u cntik :)
Thanks for your concern, everyone. Please understand that I will not publish negative remarks about anyone even if you know him personally. I did not namedrop so you should not too. This entry is not meant to hurt anyone in any way at all. I just want to share w young girls out there that heartbreak is real so do take care. Hope my intention is clear. I apologize beforehand for any misunderstandings. I appreciate each one of your comments, but may not publish all thanks xoxo.
ReplyDelete~ it' ok dear
ReplyDeletebe strong n happy always
be strong hanis..I am pretty sure you'll find your mr.right very soon...
ReplyDeleteDear, you should read this blog : http://mymilktoof.blogspot.com/ - So cute like Miao & WafuPafu Comic Blog :D
ReplyDeletehanis memang matang
ReplyDeleteBreak-ups and heartaches are experiences you must have to know the type of man you really want to spend the rest of your life with. Insya Allah, with that you will end up with the right one.
ReplyDeleteSabar kay? Banyak2 beristighfar.
^_^
hanis...btol masih muda lg...lgpun mybe u leh dpt lg better.., dan tak mustahil juga dh putus leh smbung balik....
ReplyDelete"pengalaman telah mendewasakan,mematangkan fikiran.." =)
cantiknye u...
ReplyDeletemasih mude..perjalanan masih jauh...
untuk sampai ke destinasi...(destinasi y best)..memang la macam tu..mcm u pegi berkelah tu ari..nak dapat tempat yang best..y x kene kencing orang...msti la banyak benda nak kene lalu dulu.... kan...
ade duri..ader bonggol..ade macam2 la...
tapi last2 u puas kan...
hmm..senyum ckit...camtula...
dah..dah...toksah dok pk benda y bukan best sgt pown sbenarnyer kan....
eh..aku dok membebel ni...hamis..u paham ker....?
tp i nak ckp 1 kat u... i suke u...
comey...
ha..ha..dah 2 tu..k la..bye..take care
hoh.kamu sdh matang~
ReplyDeletenyway.cinta pada Allah xkn prnah kcewa.peace!~
Hey there gojes,
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Hanis. Putus cinta doesn't necessarily mean that you putus cinta with all those beautiful things & persons that surrounds you. And I really adore how you are able to put your family first in everything.
Keep it up, girl. ;)
Wow...!!! Ramainya pakar-pakar cinta bagi komen! Nak komen juga! Muat ke lagi? Tak kira! Nak jugak! Hmmm... Kalau ada jalan penyelesaian, lebih baik selesaikan dulu sebaik-baiknya that relationship. Nobody is perfect so he is... Cari jalan, mesti jumpa punya! All the best to you both.
ReplyDeletelife must go on. n time will heal.
ReplyDeletewut best for us might not be the best to the other person.
suddenly terbayang macam mana orang tua masa puppy love bila baca last sentence. lol
ReplyDeletetakpe kak hanis. ramai lagi beratur. keluarkan borang ok! ;)
u deserve sum1 better. ure still YOUNG n theres a longgg way to go. enjoy ur life n make lots of thgs, then only u will realize it dear. gud luck & all d best. :))
ReplyDeletehye, abang single *angkat-angkat kening*
ReplyDeletehye, abang single *angkat-angkat kening*
ReplyDeleteYou gotta be strong Hanis.
ReplyDeleteske make up kali ni,tan color. ala2 jessica alba. nice~
ReplyDeleteerr~
ReplyDeletetakpe~
belajar dari pengalaman kan dik?
=)
ter'emo lak bace page ur mummy.hanis kene cool.nanti dapat la jawapan yg sebenarnya
ReplyDeletesemua itu mendewasakan kita..
ReplyDeleteSelepas Sejadah, Telekung Pula Berdiri
normal tu kepada org muda.. walaupun kadang2 terluka tapi beri sedikit masa semua akan ok.. kena lah bersemangat sikit.. redeha dengan apa yg berlaku dan terus maju ke depan..
ReplyDeletehi awk..
ReplyDeleteada award special utk awk..
silalah ambil ye..
http://nakashimakureno.blogspot.com/2010/05/and-winner-goes-to.html
puppy love doesnt mean much. :p
ReplyDeletebreakup is tough.
ReplyDeletemay you'll get over it soon.
ikut crite 500 days of summer, u'll meet someone new by day 500.
keep ur head up :)
i know u know better for ur self Hanis Zalikha!
ReplyDeletethis is just the new acceptation.
doakan yang terbaik untuk kehidupanmu dan kebahagiaan mu!
(^^)v
btul ckp Hanis...
ReplyDeleteMaybe kita kena coin term baru, bukan 'putus cinta', tapi "putus patah xde jodoh"?
Hehe... mengarut btul...
^_^
Nah, just be happy, girl... Like u said, there's so much more to Life!
Allah xkan uji hambaNya bengan sesuatu yg x boleh dia hadapi, kan...
isk... cik hanis... putus chenta lalu tulis kat belog?
ReplyDeletesuppose pergi to the nearest baskin robin... then beli half-gallons any flavour will do (although l do recommend cotton candy and cookies & cream) then makan sambil layan lagu Don't Cry by Guns N' Roses... lalu terus tido...
Esoknya bangun dah boleh carik bf baru dah... :P
Hanis, kamu jangan putus asa. Gagal sekali bukan beerti gagal selama-lamanya!
ReplyDeleteekekeke...
ReplyDeletenothing like self therapy to keep one functioning :D