Declaring my love...
Sejujurnya, I’ve a great father figure in my life. Father figure itu of courselah Daddy saya. Saya tak selalu cakap pasal Daddy, tapi kalau tengok apa yang saya pernah tulis pasal Daddy saya, tahulah betapa tinggi saya pandang dia.
I can’t imagine life tanpa Daddy, macam mana saya hari ini? Mungkin seorang yang tidak boleh diharap? Ataupun seorang yang batak sosial? Anak derhaka kepada ibu sendiri? Seorang yang takde fokus dalam hidup? Selalu lambat pergi meetings? Tak tahu kekuatan sendiri dan tiada keyakinan diri? Cakap pasal keyakinan diri, Daddy selalu marah kalau malu-malu nak mintak plastik kat kaunter McD heh tapi itu duluuu… kini tidak lagi (sungguh haprak contoh ini, but that’s not the point).
The point is, Daddy telah buat saya nak cari seorang suami yang macam dia. Sebab I nak my child to have a great father figure and turn out to be even better than me. Daddy made me realize how important it is for seorang anak to grow up having someone as wise/loving/generous/protective as he is.
Kadang-kadang kalau baca surat-surat sedih yang orang hantar dekat magazine, cerita pasal ayah diorang teruk atau diorang takde ayah, I feel really sad.
Siapa protect diorang from harm?
Kalau kena buli, mengadu kat siapa?
Kalau kena buli, mengadu kat siapa?
Masa kecik siapa angkat naik bilik kalau tertidur depan TV?
Siapa ajar bawa basikal kemudian bawa kereta manual?
Siapa ajar bawa basikal kemudian bawa kereta manual?
Siapa educate pasal office politics?
Siapa ajar offside tuh apa?
Siapa terangkan perangai lelaki zaman sekarang & yang mana patut kita date?
Siapa orang yang disalam paling awal masa raya?
Bawa pergi masjid?
Siapa siram bunga? Tebang pokok? Gali tanah kalau nak tanam kucing mati?
Siapa nak datang dengan Mama masa hari ambil report card kat sekolahhhh?
Sedihnya :( When you don’t have a dad (or a good dad), there’s really nothing you can do about it. Suruh your mom kahwin lain? Suruh orang adopt you jadi anak dia? It doesn’t work that way.
Appreciate your dad. I love you Daddy.
Jomlah join I celebrate Father's Day dengan Aaron Aziz. Eh? Hehehehehehehe join event ini dengan Oreo cookies proof of purchase. See you this Sunday!
Dah pilih t-shirt SUPERDAD untuk Daddy. This one kena cepat, mesti datang awal kalau nak.
While you’re at it, don’t forget to send cute e-card to your dad okay! I made Daddy Daddy Cool t-shirt for him, here.
saya pown syg abah saye....
ReplyDeletemmg x ley bayang kalo x ade abah....
soalan tu semua sweet . luv my dad ! :)
ReplyDeleteanyway,,happy father day ya ~
jawapan pada smua siapa itu mesti la ayah...hehe =]
ReplyDeleteteringin nak rasa semua yang Hanis rasa dengan Hanis punya Daddy.. abah yuyu dah meninggal. dari kecik pulak tu. sedih nya. kucing mati pun, yuyu tanam sendiri :'(
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ReplyDeleteso true ambil plastik kat kaunter mcd. i used to be like that, malu tak kena tempat. ;') your entry is nice. im sure your dad bangga if he read this.
ReplyDeletesyg abah saya :)
ReplyDeletesyg ayah..
ReplyDeletethanks abah sbb jadi sumber inspirasi dan mentor sampai saat skg ni :)
ReplyDeletesaya sayang ayah saya <3..
ReplyDeleteTrue enuff..I just lost a husband and my only daughter just lost her dad at the age of 9.The worst part was he was buried in UK as we reside there all this while.Her dad was the best dad ever..I pity her so much..So,please love your dad selagi they are around..:)
ReplyDeleteaku dah 11 tahun xsalam raya dengan abahku. hanis u make me sad. ha.ha tak tahu~
ReplyDeletelove my dad too!!
ReplyDeleteu're lucky hanis.. :)
ReplyDeletelov my daddy soo muchhh
ReplyDeletemiss him..
=)
wow!!
ReplyDeletei love arwah daddy
ReplyDeletemacam mana nak pergi ke website tu??
ReplyDeleteayah saya pernah ajar saya naik beskal 4 roda.. lepas tue beskal 2 roda.. kalau jatuh selalu kena piat telinga.. tapi sebab nk elak kena piat punya pasal kini saya boleh naik beskal dah.. heeee sayang ayah saya...
ReplyDeleteso sweet. eh ayah and mama hanis 2-2 datang masa ambik report card..?
ReplyDeletewah .. x penah dapat mcm tu (T.T)
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ReplyDeletehye!
ReplyDeletei've been taught to be independent in my life.. All the questions you listed above, i did it myself or with my mom's help and guidances..
However my dad has worked so hard to provide us with comfortable life.. So, i APPRECIATE just the way it is..
:)live life to the fullest!
yaaa...i love my daddy too...
ReplyDeleteagk touching la bcer entry nie...
=)
akak pun sayang habis degree kat arwah bapak akak. he's always in my heart.
ReplyDeletesaya tak dpt menafikan yg entry ni memang yang terbaik.. ikhlas!!
ReplyDeleteentry ni menyedarkan saya akan kepentingan seorang abah..
reading the questions one by one made me sad :'(
ReplyDeletethe link given is broken.i want the t-shirt.dad's gona look so cute in it. :D
ReplyDeletemy answer for all you question is..my mom..
ReplyDeleteemm;(
syg Abah! iphone 4 satu! hahahahaha
ReplyDeletehttp://wowimstillamyshuhada.blogspot.com
Kepada yang dah tak der Daddy, hope Mummy korang had a strong soul utk besarkan korang, berikan ilmu dunia dan akhirat agar korang menjadi manusia yang beriman, berilmu dan berjaya.
ReplyDeleteperangai anak perempuan dengan bapak yang boleh kongsi sama bila :
ReplyDeleteduduk sambil baca paper, bincang tentang isu semasa.
duduk sambil tengok bola, sampai pukul berapa pun tak kisah.
duduk sambil minum petang, cerita pasal lelaki, tapi takut-takut, sebab dah besar, so abah open sikit. haha! =D
duduk dengan abah, sambil bincang hal-hal lain. idea dan nasihat dia juga yang saya perlukan.
love abah saya! =D
saye juge sgt sayangkan abah saye walaupun x pernah ucapkan...
ReplyDeletethe best conversation dengan ayah adalah bila cakap pasal ciri ciri potential guy for my future hihi.and if dad has another identical copy sure dah pilih untuk jadi husband :D
ReplyDeleteYer, ayah banyak mengajar kita erti sebenar kehidupan. Have to be independant agar kita tidak jadi haprak. ( tiru ayat Hanis..)
ReplyDeleteThank you ayah kerana amat mempercayai anakmu ini. Kepercayaan ayah tidak akan dipersiakan. Hope you all pun bersikap sebegitu. Jangan musnahkan harapan dan impian ibu dan ayah kita. Betul tak Hanis.. : )
ReplyDeletei love my dad too .
ReplyDeletesadly he has always been overshadowed my mom . and me ? poof .
selamat hari ayah untuk semua :)
ReplyDeletesayang ayah juga....
ReplyDeletesjujurnya tanpa ayah siapalah sya..
all by myself~ and mak of coz..bygkan time tgah prtngahan sem 2 kat matrik..ayah pergi tinggalkan kitorg..
ReplyDeleteskrg tgah nak amek lesen,rasanya kalau ayah ada msti sng mcm kkk dlu ayah ajar..=)
ramai yg menulis "saya sayang ayah saya" kat sini. What's the point?
ReplyDeletePegi ckpla kat ur dad on ur own...
daddy hanis hebat.
ReplyDeleteayah saya juga.
sayang ayah :)<--kot kot ayah baca belog Hanis. LOL
ye, ayah saya la yg ajar bwk keta manual sampai saya terdrive atas divider jalan. kah2. tp tu bukan salah dia, tapi salah anak dia yang excited blaja nak bawak keta. huhu...
ReplyDeletemy dad............passed away 3 years ago............
ReplyDeletekucing mati, tebang pokok, cuci kipas..semua buat sendiri..;') harap dapat suami yg terbaik..;')insyaAllah..
ReplyDeletei saw u with ur dad in his wira car at giant sect 13 last week..:)
ReplyDeleteperghhh..
ReplyDeletesok besday abah aku..
i miss my dad,,,,,
ReplyDeletei miss my dad very much...yep, appreciate ur dad hnis
ReplyDeleteorg yang ajar saye "english education" -dah 3 tahun pergi mengadap illahi..
ReplyDeletebile bace ape hanis tules tuh teringat n tersedih lah pulak huhu~
i love my babah too..
ReplyDeletebertuah saya dapat babah seperti babah saya..
bila hanis tulis macam tu, mcm tnye dri sndiri gak..
tak dapat byngkan idup tanpe babah..
Father..sumber inspirasi utk didik kte dari kecik pai beso, ble dh kahwin or ad anak nnt..:)
ReplyDeletelove this post.and i LOVE my abah very20x much ;)
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ReplyDeletehanis, pasal model kena bermuka serius ek? mmg requirement dia ek? takder la seolah2 mcm kena paksa je pakai baju tu. takder la just asking jer. mcm ilang naturality pulak serius merius ni.
ReplyDeleteeh eh komen takder kena mengena dgn post pulak
-father of 2
Honestly, it's better to be an orphan rather than having one, at least u'll never hurt them...
ReplyDeletehttp://mresan-lifeofadecentguy.blogspot.com/
sedihnya contoh2 yg hanis bg tu. sebak jap teringat ayah huhu
ReplyDeleteHanis darling, nice post..=)
ReplyDeleteit's hard to answer all of ur questions cause i don't really have any answer..my dad left us since i wasnt even born yet..he's not passed away, just left. growing up till 24 years old without him, for me, he's like never existed..so unlucky, kan..
however i dont blame anyone n i accept that as qada & qadar Allah. i believe He has better gift for me since i dont get to know what all of u lucky people ever feel. =)
to all, appreciate ur dad & Happy Father's Day..
we can never choose whos going to be our father n mother,,,, its all have been decided long before we are born... all we can do it to make the most of the decision that have been made for us.. :)love'em,,, protet them,,, just like they do when we are just learning about this world...
ReplyDeletei love my daddy as well:'))
ReplyDeletehappy father's day!
you should be more emphatic when writing your post (i read your blog now and then anyway). not everyone as lucky as you are and when reading the part which written that there is nothing you can do if you don't have a daddy or your daddy is a crook, i don't think it is wise.
ReplyDeletei love my daddy but too bad he is not around anymore. thus, when reading that part i feel that you are mocking those yang tak punya daddy..
huhuu..very cool daddy....
ReplyDeletechaiyok hanis zalikha....
nak tengok script kesudahan nora elena jom http://musalmahghazali.blogspot.com
sayang my dad tooo! :P
ReplyDeleteI love my daddy.... <3 <3 <3
ReplyDeletei once have a dad.but now i don't even know who he is.he never accept our (me and bro) existence.'daddy' word is the least for me in this life. :(
ReplyDeleteNot mocking at all. Dont even go there. You know I dont mean it that way.
ReplyDeletemy dad is a superman !! haha..
ReplyDeletei wish i have a daddy. saya masih ingat, saya hati saya tersentuh kat luar pagar sbb saya tengok bapa kawan saya hantar dia. tp saya, naik bas. hati saya tersentih, bila hari saya menerima anugerah..semua perents datang, tp saya, mama sahaja. hati saya juga tersentuh, setiap kali melihat cerita kekeluargaan di tv. hati saya tersentuh, bila ada hari bapa menjelang. tapi buatkan saya sgt sedih, bapa saya masih ada, tp kenapa dia buat seolah dia masih tiada. perkataan ayah boleh di kira sepanjang hidup saya.
ReplyDeletedulu aku ada ayah. sekarang ayah dah tiada lagi tetapi sekarang aku dh jadi ayah. jd ayah memang mencabar,tambah pulak jd ayah zaman moden ni. so anak2 sekalian hargailah ayah2 korang semasa masih hidup.
ReplyDeletesaya malu dengan ayah saya.. > <
ReplyDeleteuntung sesape yg msh ada ayah. sy akui xpenah rasa ksh syg ayah sbb xsempat jmp ayah pun. tp msh syukur ada mak yg jaga n besarkn dari kecik smpi umo 24 skrang ni.dikau la mak, dikau jualah ayah & dikau segala2 nyer..syg la mak ayah yg msh idup. dh xde nyesal pun xguna klau kita xhargai mak ayah kita..to hanis @ zali, wish u all de best n moga hepi ngan ayah serta family tersyg ok? kenalan baru di blog ni - ALVIN SHAH -
ReplyDeletemagik kan bila tertidur depan TV bangun pagi tetiba ada atas katil..kadang2 buat2 tidur..sengaja nak suruh ayah angkat.i love my daddy too..:)
ReplyDeleteuntungynyew~ btw usually anak perempuan lagi rapat dengan daddy dia kan.
ReplyDeletehappy father's day hanis! ;)
contest tuh cam menarik. hehe
ReplyDeleteteringin nak jumpa hanis secara live. insyaAllah if ada rezki nak join gak event tuh.
Tlg saye https://spreadsheets.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?hl=en_US&formkey=dERCTXdtX0JleGhMN0tzMW53MC1YQ1E6MQ#gid=0
ReplyDeletesayangi ayah kita semua..hargailah dia sementara dia masih ada...
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u punyer post mmg superb lah..
ReplyDeleteseriusly..
bestnya.......eringin nak jadi macam hanis zalikha dengan daddynya...apapon,kita sentiasa bersyukur dengan apa yang ada...pengorbanan bapa takkan pernah dilupakan ..
ReplyDeleteTanpa ayah tiadalah kita..ngeee
ReplyDeleteJom Tengok :
ISU HINA ISLAM TERHANGAT DI MALAYSIA!!
MAYA KARIN DIPAKSA JUAL BADAN!!
HOT!!: LADY GAGA PAKAI.....KONDOM?? !!
sape nak humban aku dalam stor gelap memalam buta lepas mencarut kat makcik kalau ayah tade? terime kasih ayah. kalau bukan kerna ayah humban aku dlm stor gelap. aku mungkin takut gelap dan hantu sekarang nih. terima kasih sebab mengajak aku sembahyang daripada memaksa aku sembahyang. sesungguhnya aku mmg tak leh tolak ajakan ayah.
ReplyDeletethough my dad is not a good husband to my mom,but he's a good father...ya...i love him.. :)
ReplyDeletesaya sayang ayah saya... Sekarang ni lah masa untuk membalas semula segala kesusahan masa nak besar dan sekolahkan saya sampai berjaya macam hari ni.. :) i love u dad.. :)
ReplyDeleteJom baca ni :Rangkaian Maqui Miracle, Lancome Membuatkan Wajah Bebas Minyak Sepanjang Hari..
Jom baca ni :Coklat-coklat Mekah, Jenama Evliya Sultan..
daddy cool~ ;)
ReplyDeleteHi Hanis,
ReplyDeletebeen following ur blog for some time..like the lite readings :-)
never wanted to comment or anything..but, this enrty i couldn't resist on sharing..not much..just sharing something...if u don't mind...
i lost my dad recently...1st April 2011...its been 2 months since...i'm still coping with it..its hard...and i am lost...empty..lonely...i just missed my dad..badly....
Hye Hanis.. :-)
ReplyDeletehow r u? i've been following entires in ur blog..like the lite readings you posts.. it always bring a smile n sometimes even made me thinkof my own life too..
i only do readings but never commented b4..well, this entry i just couldn't resist..just thought of sharing something, not much, just wanted to say it..sometimes saying to somebody who doesn't know u is much better, coz they don't judge u, they just listen....if u won't mind..
well..father's day...erm..i just lost my dad..on the 1st Apr 2011..its been 2 months since...its hard..trying to cope with it..i'm lost...empty..and lonely....i really miss my dad...so much...
Hye Hanis.. :-)
ReplyDeletehow r u? i've been following entires in ur blog..like the lite readings you posts.. it always bring a smile n sometimes even made me thinkof my own life too..
i only do readings but never commented b4..well, this entry i just couldn't resist..just thought of sharing something, not much, just wanted to say it..sometimes saying to somebody who doesn't know u is much better, coz they don't judge u, they just listen....if u won't mind..
well..father's day...erm..i just lost my dad..on the 1st Apr 2011..its been 2 months since...its hard..trying to cope with it..i'm lost...empty..and lonely....i really miss my dad...so much...
hepy fathers day..
ReplyDeletetringat abah yg saya kagumi suatu tika dulu..
kini telah lama pergi tinggalkan saya buat selamanya..
I love my daddy too but.....
ReplyDelete12years ayah dah pegi tgglkan kitorang.. i only hv my mom.
ReplyDeletethis entry is so shweet! yup you are right hanis. my dad also is the one yang akan buat semua benda yang anak2 perempuan dia takut. such as kalau ada lipas ke kumbang ke tikus ke dalam rumah. my dad orang yang pertama kitaorang panggil. hikhikhik. anyway, happy father's day to semua bapa2 tidak kira di mana sahaja anda berada. Terima kasih kerana memberikan kasih sayang yang tidak tertanding, membesarkan, memberikan segala keperluan kepada kami semua. WE LOVE YOU DAD FOREVER & ALWAYS. LOVE.
ReplyDeleteSalam. .. saya ada buat satu segmen. ini pertama kali saya buat.. dan sebagai ganjarannya.. saya akan pergi ke blog idola, blogger yg menyertai segmen saya..
ReplyDelete.
mintak tolong terjah blog ini..
http://lianapm.blogspot.com/
katanya, dia sangat respect dengan cara Hanis Zalikha berblogging..
walaupun, dia blogger baru.. tapi banyak info yg menarik yg mampu di dapati di dalamnya..
saya harap pihak Hanis Zalikha, sudi menjengah blog ini..
Bagaikan pungguk yang di rindukan bulan. Hanis..mana artikel terbaru nih..huhu..
ReplyDeletehanis waiting for your new post! :)
ReplyDeletehuh! teringat zaman2 jahiliah dulu, selalu bertengkar dgn ayah, alhamdulilah ayah sorg penyabar dgn anaknya sorg nie.. huhu.. (ada time usha la my blog..)
ReplyDeletekalau kes macam saya macam mana pulak? saya ada 2 Ayah. Ayah kandung: ajar saya bertatih, anta amek saya pergi sekolah sampai umur saya 8 Ayah tiri: ajar saya bawak keta manual,bawak pergi travel, anta saya masuk U. nanti saya kahwin dua2 ayah saya ni akan teman saya.. saya sayang dua2 ayah saya.. diorang lah hero saya. saya bangga ada 2 ayah yg sayangkan saya.
ReplyDeleteYOU MUST BE CLOSE WITH YOU R DAD KAN SIS HANIS ? :D
ReplyDeleteteringat arwah abah :') I miss HIM so much :')
ReplyDeletei don't even got what you listed out between dad and daughter.
ReplyDeleteand this is what I felt about
http://filosofi-i.blogspot.com/2011/06/happy-fathers-day-abah.html
however, I still love him :')
mesti la sayanggggg
ReplyDelete:)
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:)
aik? nak tanam meow mati sampai kena tebang pokok? :-)
ReplyDeletesedih baca entry hanis ni..memang betul, banyak yang seorang bapa sanggup buat untuk anak dia..teringat kat arwah ayah..semoga rohnya ditempatkan di kalangan orang2 yang beriman..Amin..
ReplyDeletehaving so much time with our daddy is the precious moment,,but sometimes,,,ade certain people yang agak malu even just saying thank you to ayah sendiri,,=D btw.. you have a great moment with your dedi sys hanis <2
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ReplyDeletemy dad is my inspiration. ayah explain apa itu off side dgn penuh saba.. when 1994 world cup :). ayah ayah offside tu mcm mane? hehehe.
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